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I looked shoot me now

cebouldcebould
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I was bored so I went into the bathroom picked up a mirror and looked at my va-jay-jay. OMG I didnt think it would be that bad. OMG OMG and I didnt tear no stiches needed and still OMG. If I was my boyfriend I would not want to get near it. How am I ever going to have sex and not be self conscious?
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  • lindsayrichardsonlindsayrichardson
    Girl...you are brave!! I don't have the courage!!!
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  • lindsayrichardsonlindsayrichardson
    I had 3rd degree tear....:(
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  • manxmanx

    I'm assuming you checked out your va-jay-jay before birth?  B/c mine wasn't something I'd put on a postcard prior to birth... 

     That being said perhaps you should talk with your gyno b/c I had 22 stitches and mine looks about the same.  Still its nothing I would advertise nor consider sexy.  

    Hmm... not to be even more crude but how much eyeball is your BF gonna give it anyway?  So don't be self-conscious.  Just think how absurd balls look and feel better about yourself.

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  • shainababygirlshainababygirl
    imagemanx:

    Hmm... not to be even more crude but how much eyeball is your BF gonna give it anyway?  So don't be self-conscious.  Just think how absurd balls look and feel better about yourself.

    Hahahahahahahhahaa. 

    LOVES it.

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  • mernamommernamom
    imagemanx:

     So don't be self-conscious.  Just think how absurd balls look and feel better about yourself.

     This statement cracks. me. up!  Hilarious!

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  • manxmanx

    Sorry!  Honestly, my Hubby and I have the humor of 12 year old boys.  You should see our blog!  I still find penises, peni? Hmm what is the plural of penis... and vagina funny.  In fact I just chuckled writing it.

     

    However, not feeling sexy is something I think a lot of new mom's deal with.  So that I do take seriously.

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  • AngelMell05AngelMell05 member
    LOL I am soooo afraid to see whats down there.. I did have an episiotimy too. ahhhh it prob does not look so hot!
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  • mistywhite400mistywhite400 member
    "How much eyeball is your DH gonna give it" Omg I so needed a laugh! Thank you!! LMAO!
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  • lifesadancelifesadance member

    I had 2nd degree tears and I looked on the morning of the 2nd day PP... it was awful.  There was so much blood just like dripping and it was reminiscent of something you'd see in a horrible war movie... like someone's limb was blown off.  :o)

    A week or so later I looked again and it was all black and purple from bruising and still really swollen.  

    It still looks like a hot mess down there.  Minimal swelling of the perineum remain and the lady parts are really unattractive looking still.  

    :o( sad lady parts.  

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  • monkey_mama09monkey_mama09

    Hmmm... mine pretty much looks normal now.

    Know what's scary?  I took a mirror and looked down there the week following birth.  Talk about a HUGE GAPING HOLE.  

    **shudder**

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