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It's like taking a bullet...Humorous venting...come on in!

doozer1345doozer1345 member
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Anyone ever have the feeling since you've been TTC everyone around you is getting pregnant?! OH! and I love it when they say"Oh, it'll happen for you, we weren't trying." Really?! Well guess what?! I have been. For 2 freakin years!

Or, the "when are you guys gonna start having kids?" or "you guys need some of these (as they pick up their adorable little kids)." I just want to scream out: "OH YEAH?! You need one of these (and flip them the bird!)!"

Just a little ticked. 5 of my friends have gotten pregnant within the past month. I just find it so hard to be happy for them, and I feel like an awful person. I'm trying to find that mature person I know is in here somewhere to go to the showers..... UGH! FML!

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Re: It's like taking a bullet...Humorous venting...come on in!

  • stbmrsbroussardstbmrsbroussard
    dont feel bad i go through the same thing. i cant seem to get myself to baby showers and things of this nature and i hate going out with friends who are preg. i dont mean to be hateful its just a struggle... dont worry you are not alone..
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  • osufanosufan
    Uughh... you are definitely NOT alone because I know exactly how you feel!  I hear the same things on a regular basis.  I have SO many friends right now that are pregnant and more that have just had babies.  You want to be happy and cheerful, but at the same time you play the 'why not us' game with yourself and get angry!  Then I feel bad and feel like I'm not being the friend I should be.  Its just so hard for them to understand.. I mean they have a baby!
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  • hopingforbaby#1in2010hopingforbaby#1in2010
    I hear ya!  Or the, "just get drunk, thats what did it for us!"  Errr!
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  • doozer1345doozer1345 member

    imagehopingforbaby#1in2010:
    I hear ya!  Or the, "just get drunk, thats what did it for us!"  Errr!

     

    I actually had a friend (who had a baby last year) tell me the best way is to get drunk and do it in the back of the car in a parking lot...hmmm...

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    Several MCs
    DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)



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  • Annoyed Bridesmaid (and Former Bride)Annoyed Bridesmaid (and Former Bride)

    It's awful!  I can't imagine how you feel considering 5 of your friends are pregnant.  I found out on Tuesday that just ONE of my best friends in pregnant and I've been trying to keep myself in check all week!  I told myself i will not cry!  Last time we talked about TTC she mentioned they might start trying late last year... well, here we are late January and JUST LIKE THAT... they are PREGNANT!!!  It just happens and is SO easy for so many people.  So unfair!!! 

    Ok, vent over. :)

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