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Confession

I have an ex best friend who I had a bad falling out with years ago (it was her fault by the way.)  Seeing her on FB talking to mutual friends with the picture of her and her toddler makes me so jealous.  And she met her H looooong after I met mine, yet she managed to get married 2 months before me and get KU the next year.
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  • haha, I gotta laugh because this sounds just like me!

    Except my ex-bff is on her 3rd child!   Way too similar though, so I understand completely!

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  • I know the feeling girl!

    My exBF is pg with a man she's been having an affair with (which is why we stopped being friends... wasn't in agreement with her relationship).

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  • I have a "nemesis" that is, in large part, my nemesis just because we were only casual friends when she got KU on her first month TTC (which was my second month TTC) and then proptly 18 months later got KU with #2.  I "celebrated" my three-year suck-o-versary right around the same time she gave birth to #2.  IF is evil. 
     
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    I know the feeling girl!

    My exBF is pg with a man she's been having an affair with (which is why we stopped being friends... wasn't in agreement with her relationship).

     holy cow.. this is like a soap opera!!!! That is crazy!!!! 

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    I know the feeling girl!

    My exBF is pg with a man she's been having an affair with (which is why we stopped being friends... wasn't in agreement with her relationship).

     holy cow.. this is like a soap opera!!!! That is crazy!!!! 

  • I know this is tough.. and it's not fare... my ex bff has two babies and it hurt to see her family photos too!   Hang in there.. I love FB but hate it some ways too!  One of my friends from HS got pg the same time I was going through my pregnancy and then I loss the baby at 3 1/2 months and I followed her pregnancy everyday like a stalker or something because I wanted a baby so bad.. It was really hard to watch her baby bump pictures and then see the baby pictures after he was born because that should have been me too!!! I'm over it now but it was hard at the time.  Hang in there!!!
  • boo!  I can't remember who- but someone on this board once said FB=fertile book- so true!  I always think of that now. 

    Well- you have your birthday surprise coming up- soo you're totally KTFU (fingers crossed)

    hide her posts for a while- or stay off FB for a while.

    I'm thinking of hiding someone on my FB whose updates are always about her baby. every.single.update.

    Now I did think- I wonder if people think that way about me and my updates about my dogs.  but I don't care.  LOL 

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  • I think that we are all a little "in tune" to pregnant people or babies in FB and real life because of the current journey we are all unfortunatel yon  at this time.   I sometime wonder that when the time comes for me (ok I dont wonder, I know) every FB and life comment will probably be about my pregnancy or child.  And I am sure that when it is our time to be pregnant there will be someone on FB or in real life feeling exactly as we feel now when seeing us. 

    For the affair couple, and the one on daddy#3 - oooh the drama!

  • Yup. I divorced my ex-BFF too. We're not FB friends, but FB really wants us to be since we have so many common friends. Her profile pic is of her two babies. Blech.
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