I'm a nurse, so I work three 12 hour shifts a week. I love that I'll be home four days a week, but those working days are going to be so long when I'm away from DS! Dh is deploying soon, so he'll spend about 13 hours in daycare on my working days. Breaks my heart.
I'm back, I work 8-5 with every other Friday off. I'm the main breadwinner in the family so I know I'm working to provide for him. Sure it still sucks that he's at the sitters all day but he's going to have things pretty good at home.
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I start back on Feb. 5 full time (40 hours). I was sitting on the couch with DS yesterday and he was smiling and laughing and I realized how much I'm going to miss him. Pretty much started crying right there.
Last week was my first week back, but DH was home, today is her first day at Day Care. It's bene a HORRIBLE day and I am glad I only have an hour and half til I am done.
I am working about 7.5 hours a day instead of 8 so not much but kind of "part" time.
I've been back at work 40+ hours a week since 2 weeks post partum. It's hard, but I'm the only person employed (fiance is on unemployment) so I definitely have to work.
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2007-Sept 2008: TTC the old fashioned way
Sept 2008 - Jan 2009: Clomid 100mg
Feb 2009: 200mg Clomid = BFP! on March 20, 2009 - It's a BOY!
Nov 26th 2009: Aidan Michael, 20.5" 7lb12oz
Feb 2010: Start TTC again, the old fashioned way
Mar - June 2011: Clomid 100mg
July 2011: Unmedicated cycle = BFP! on August 29th, 2011
Nov 6th 2011: m/c due to subchorionic hematoma
Dec 2011: Start TTC again, unmedicated
February 12th, 2012: BFP! EDD 10/23/12
Mar 12th 2012: diagnosed as blighted ovum
Trying again..
I have been back to work for 2 weeks now. We are getting into a routine and it is slowly getting a little easier. He is doing great at daycare and I consider it a good day if I don't cry like a baby on the way to work. I try to tell myself this is the best thing for him in the long run. I make more than my DH so I cannot afford to stay home. But it is still really hard. I spend a lot of time at work thinking about what he is doing.
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I went back on 01/04/10 and it was really hard. I started my job when I was six months pregnant, so it kind of felt like starting a new one, but also felt like going back to some bit of "normal." I am keeping a working mom blog, if you're interested - link in siggy.
Remember - quality time is what matters, not the quantity of it. When you go back, you will have amazing quality time with your DD every night - I pretty much guarantee it!
I went back last Friday...it was hard. Plus I am finding that I have spent most of the weekend cleaning and doing laundry and planning meals so that next week is smoother. That way, my evenings won't be so crazy. I have to admit though, I am resenting DH a little. When he works, he relaxes when he is off. Yet if I relax when I am off, I have a dirty house, dirty children, dirty clothes. Then I gave him DD yesterday while I folded laundry and within 30 seconds of holding her, she was crying and he said, "Babe, I think she is hungry." Ummm, no she just ate. Maybe she wants her daddy to do something with her besides sitting on his butt? He then asked, "Where is her pacifier?" Go look for it I screamed inside my head. But did I say it, no. I just went, grabbed her, and said forget it, I will take care of her. Somehow it is easier for me? I am grouchy for sure.
Our family is growing by two feet and we couldn't be happier!
Re: Mommies who are returning to work or already did...
I start back the 2nd week in February.
I'm a nurse, so I work three 12 hour shifts a week. I love that I'll be home four days a week, but those working days are going to be so long when I'm away from DS! Dh is deploying soon, so he'll spend about 13 hours in daycare on my working days. Breaks my heart.
Last week was my first week back, but DH was home, today is her first day at Day Care. It's bene a HORRIBLE day and I am glad I only have an hour and half til I am done.
I am working about 7.5 hours a day instead of 8 so not much but kind of "part" time.
http://i41.tinypic.com/111ov4j.jpg
2007-Sept 2008: TTC the old fashioned way
Sept 2008 - Jan 2009: Clomid 100mg
Feb 2009: 200mg Clomid = BFP! on March 20, 2009 - It's a BOY!
Nov 26th 2009: Aidan Michael, 20.5" 7lb12oz
Feb 2010: Start TTC again, the old fashioned way
Mar - June 2011: Clomid 100mg
July 2011: Unmedicated cycle = BFP! on August 29th, 2011
Nov 6th 2011: m/c due to subchorionic hematoma
Dec 2011: Start TTC again, unmedicated
February 12th, 2012: BFP! EDD 10/23/12
Mar 12th 2012: diagnosed as blighted ovum
Trying again..
I went back on 01/04/10 and it was really hard. I started my job when I was six months pregnant, so it kind of felt like starting a new one, but also felt like going back to some bit of "normal." I am keeping a working mom blog, if you're interested - link in siggy.
Remember - quality time is what matters, not the quantity of it. When you go back, you will have amazing quality time with your DD every night - I pretty much guarantee it!
I went back last Friday...it was hard. Plus I am finding that I have spent most of the weekend cleaning and doing laundry and planning meals so that next week is smoother. That way, my evenings won't be so crazy. I have to admit though, I am resenting DH a little. When he works, he relaxes when he is off. Yet if I relax when I am off, I have a dirty house, dirty children, dirty clothes. Then I gave him DD yesterday while I folded laundry and within 30 seconds of holding her, she was crying and he said, "Babe, I think she is hungry." Ummm, no she just ate. Maybe she wants her daddy to do something with her besides sitting on his butt? He then asked, "Where is her pacifier?" Go look for it I screamed inside my head. But did I say it, no. I just went, grabbed her, and said forget it, I will take care of her. Somehow it is easier for me? I am grouchy for sure.