uhoh - DH is going to be upset!

shanmoyer · January 2010

I just called the dr's to ask that they leave the results of the gender ultrasound on my voicemail, and she said that they can't due to confidentiality reasons.

Uh oh! DH isn't going to be super pumped about that!

synchrosally · January 2010

Crappity crap crap crap. Well that just sucks. When do they close? Can you wait until you get home? or can you find out now and do something cute for DH so he doesn't feel left out?

Ba Lolly · January 2010

gender is confindential? it's not a medical condition.

Rachelilly23 · January 2010

Hey Shan, did I miss something? Why couldn't they tell you the results at the u/s? Apologies if you've already said why.

amandydean · January 2010

I'm assuming you want to wait because your DH won't be there with you?

Have them write it on a piece of paper and fold it up... that way you guys can open it together later.

shanmoyer · January 2010

Rachelilly23:
Hey Shan, did I miss something? Why couldn't they tell you the results at the u/s? Apologies if you've already said why.

different liability and confidentiality laws here in Canada than down in the States.

DH wants us both to find out together, and he's kinda throwing a temper tantrum about them calling just me and telling just me about the gender.

I don't know what to do!!!

shanmoyer · January 2010

by the way - whomever one starred this post, can you please explain to me why you did? I don't understand why all of my posts are onestarred. You may think it's funny, but it's a really *** thing to do!

Clearly in this post I'm saying that my DH is going to be upset if I find out the gender before him, I'm looking for some support and ideas as to how to make this special for him (even while he's sort of throwing a temper tantrum about it).

Why do you, onestar bandit, insist on being such an azz?

shanmoyer · January 2010

amandydean:

I'm assuming you want to wait because your DH won't be there with you?

Have them write it on a piece of paper and fold it up... that way you guys can open it together later.

thank you for this idea! I don't know if they'll do it, but they might!

Rachelilly23 · January 2010

shanmoyer:
Rachelilly23:
Hey Shan, did I miss something? Why couldn't they tell you the results at the u/s? Apologies if you've already said why.

different liability and confidentiality laws here in Canada than down in the States.

DH wants us both to find out together, and he's kinda throwing a temper tantrum about them calling just me and telling just me about the gender.

I don't know what to do!!!

Ahh gotcha- I like that last idea about asking them to write it down. DH and I opened an envelope with a picture inside with the gender on there and an arrow pointing to the parts and it was a great way to find out!

rhabel · January 2010

Could you call their office when you're both together and have them on speakerphone so you both can find out together?

m3l0d1 · January 2010

You can do a 3 way calling with your hubby and the ob's office, that way when they tell you the gender of the baby, you both know at the same time.

You can call your DH first, before you call OB's office, so you don't have to ask the office to hold when you're connecting to your DH.

?

shanmoyer · January 2010

Rachelilly23:
shanmoyer:

Rachelilly23:
Hey Shan, did I miss something? Why couldn't they tell you the results at the u/s? Apologies if you've already said why.

different liability and confidentiality laws here in Canada than down in the States.

DH wants us both to find out together, and he's kinda throwing a temper tantrum about them calling just me and telling just me about the gender.

I don't know what to do!!!

Ahh gotcha- I like that last idea about asking them to write it down. DH and I opened an envelope with a picture inside with the gender on there and an arrow pointing to the parts and it was a great way to find out!

he says that we can just call them tomorrow morning - what's one more day right? No biggie.

I feel bad that he's so upset, and I really do want him there when we find out...so hopefully we can get the information in the morning!

shanmoyer · January 2010

rhabel:
Could you call their office when you're both together and have them on speakerphone so you both can find out together?

lol now I have to figure out how to get my blackberry on speakerphone!

Mocha Girl · January 2010

shanmoyer:

by the way - whomever one starred this post, can you please explain to me why you did? I don't understand why all of my posts are onestarred. You may think it's funny, but it's a really *** thing to do!

Clearly in this post I'm saying that my DH is going to be upset if I find out the gender before him, I'm looking for some support and ideas as to how to make this special for him (even while he's sort of throwing a temper tantrum about it).

Why do you, onestar bandit, insist on being such an azz?

I'm lurking from 1st tri, but I assumed you got a star based on the number of views on your post.... I don't think others can 'rate' your post. I could be wrong though!

shanmoyer · January 2010

Mocha Girl:
shanmoyer:

by the way - whomever one starred this post, can you please explain to me why you did? I don't understand why all of my posts are onestarred. You may think it's funny, but it's a really *** thing to do!

Clearly in this post I'm saying that my DH is going to be upset if I find out the gender before him, I'm looking for some support and ideas as to how to make this special for him (even while he's sort of throwing a temper tantrum about it).

Why do you, onestar bandit, insist on being such an azz?

I'm lurking from 1st tri, but I assumed you got a star based on the number of views on your post.... I don't think others can 'rate' your post. I could be wrong though!

hey there! welcome from 1st tri!

unfortunately, it's not that easy. most of my posts are consistently 1starred - even those with over a hundred view or responses.

You can rate people's posts by clicking on the stars in the upper left corner of the original post.

Mocha Girl · January 2010

shanmoyer:
Mocha Girl:
shanmoyer:

by the way - whomever one starred this post, can you please explain to me why you did? I don't understand why all of my posts are onestarred. You may think it's funny, but it's a really *** thing to do!

Clearly in this post I'm saying that my DH is going to be upset if I find out the gender before him, I'm looking for some support and ideas as to how to make this special for him (even while he's sort of throwing a temper tantrum about it).

Why do you, onestar bandit, insist on being such an azz?

I'm lurking from 1st tri, but I assumed you got a star based on the number of views on your post.... I don't think others can 'rate' your post. I could be wrong though!

hey there! welcome from 1st tri!

unfortunately, it's not that easy. most of my posts are consistently 1starred - even those with over a hundred view or responses.

You can rate people's posts by clicking on the stars in the upper left corner of the original post.

Oh, well look at that... I had no idea! I just gave you five stars Wink

I came over to 2nd tri because I feel like I see the same stuff posted on 1st tri over and over. Just wanted to see if I could learn something new and I did! Thanks for the lesson!

KimW · January 2010

Dumb question...isn't a starred post a good thing?

To the OP, it would kill me to wait another day...could you get someone else to call in to get your results and have them write it down and put it in a sealed envelope?

synchrosally · January 2010

KimW:

Dumb question...isn't a starred post a good thing?

To the OP, it would kill me to wait another day...could you get someone else to call in to get your results and have them write it down and put it in a sealed envelope?

A 5 star post is good, when someone 1 stars it, they are trying to make a statement.

mrsjenni · January 2010

1. Don't pay attention to the stars on the post. I don't even know why the Bump does it. I've never looked at the stars on any of my posts, nor have I ever voted on another's post, lol. IT'S SO DUMB!

2. Can you call them and have them right it down and then go pick up the paper really quick?

3. Can you go to DH's work and call them together right now? Or stop by the office together today?

4. If you don't care... have your DH call and then tell you what the sex is. {Why is having a temper tantrum!?!}

5. I love you.

shanmoyer · January 2010

Mocha - lol thanks for ther 5 stars!! you'll get lots of post variety here, lots of boob posts too though!

Synch- I love you

Mrs Jenni-

1) It just frustrates me. Even my post about my mom/brother situation was onestarred on friday. That's just plain hurtful. I don't go around rating anyone's posts, because I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of it.

2) I suggested that to DH and got veto'd

3) He's at home - not working right now actually. And has a business meeting when I'm done work - looks like timing is not our friend today!

4) Temper tantrum - cause he's a special breed of boy...the kind with a big heart and cares so much about this baby that he wants us to celebrate together when we find out. Silly boy! lol

5) I love you too!

mrsjenni · January 2010

It makes sense to find out together! One day isn't that big a deal... you can do it!!!! Stay strong and call when you're together tomorrow!!!!!

It'll be worth the wait

shanmoyer · January 2010

mrs.jenni:

It makes sense to find out together! One day isn't that big a deal... you can do it!!!! Stay strong and call when you're together tomorrow!!!!!

It'll be worth the wait

for sure! I'm already tearing up thinking about C's reaction to what it is! I think it's going to be sooo sweet to see his face light up!

LovePink2850 · January 2010

amandydean:
I'm assuming you want to wait because your DH won't be there with you?
Have them write it on a piece of paper and fold it up... that way you guys can open it together later.

I love that idea.

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