I started a new job back in June and found out they do not offer paid ML. So, I have to go on short term disability which I get 10 weeks regular birth or 12 weeks for c-section. Then I can use any of my vacation time that I have been hoarding since it has to be use my 9/30
Re: How much maternity leave do you get?
With my STD and my vacation days I hope to be home for at least 3 1/2 months, then I am going to ask my boss if i could work from home for 1-2 days a week going forward. That way I can do some house stuff on my my lunch break, or leave to pick up the baby earlier from daycare on those days since I won't be commuting.
We get 12 weeks and can come back part-time for another 12 weeks. My last company I worked with we negotiated a new maternity leave policy. The policy was crap and many of the girls were pregnant so it worked in our favor. We negotiated 12 weeks off fully paid and then 1 month unpaid if you chose to do so.
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I had a total of 20 weeks. 10 of that was paid in full and 6 weeks partial pay with the new NJ deal... so only 4 weeks were unpaid but with job protection.
I got:
NJFMLA:
4 week sbefore
8 weeks after (c-sectoin)
NJFLI:
6 weeks paid
6 more off with job protection no pay!
i called the state Labor Dept this week to clarify b/c my work was only saying I got 4 wks before and 6 weeks after, paid (we have a "private plan," but companies that don't are under the state plan).
espec if you're at a company w/50+ employees, you should get an ADDITIONAL 6 weeks under the new state LEAVE act -- paid (signed into law this summer; some HR folks do not know the rules)... but a PP suggested we get another 6 weeks unpaid (if you want to take it)... i believe that's when the federal "you can take leave for 12 weeks w/job security intact" rules go into place, no???
sadly, there's no "definitive" source online or in print that I've found, and it's confusing to say the least.
I am under the assumption that i will be getting, like the PP:
NJFMLA:
4 weeks before PAID
6 weeks after (8 if it's a c-section) PAID
NJFL:
6 weeks paid
6 more off with job protection no pay
has anyone been told DIFFERENTLY by their employer and then QUESTIONED and gotten more??
It's a touchy subject to bring it up too soon, but....I probably will in 2-3 weeks.
(and under NJ state law, don't forget you're entitled to PAID leave if you're unemployed, for pregnancy, too)
the additional extended family leave act only applies if you have been employed by your employer for over 12 months. ( in addition to them employing 50+ people.)
I don't qualify for it so i'm left with std- 4 weeks prior and 6/8 weeks after depending on vag or c-section. adding on some vacation days but don't want to consume it all up so I can still take a week off here and there to spend with LO as they grow.
I asked my ob if they would get me out of work earlier, perhaps on long term disability- but they said that the state asks tons of questions and I really need to be on bedrest or what not.