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Maybe TMI but sexy time sucks nowadays...

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My poor DH finally found enough energy to find me desirable last nite but unfortunately i thought i looked like a cow and felt even worse...i really really miss sex but this just isnt going to cut it...i thought libidos came back in the 3rd tri but mine has definately went AWOL
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Re: Maybe TMI but sexy time sucks nowadays...

  • bjmyangelbjmyangel
    Mine has been gone this whole pregnancy.  We have done it literally twice since I got my BFP.  My poor hubby tries, but I just don't want anything to do with it.  Hoping it comes back soon though!
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  • shimmerairbrushshimmerairbrush
    My dh takes a look at my ankles and starts laughing histerically...thats our sexy time. Nice.
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  • Erin0922Erin0922 member

    Mine was strong in 2nd tri. Now I'm over it.

    I tried to get DH to settle for a blowie last night, but my gag reflux reared its ugly head. So, we had the most awkward sex ever. I can't wait to feel normal again! 

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  • IheartkeviIheartkevi member
    Wait four more weeks...believe me it gets worse.
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  • aocain02@yahoo.comaocain02@yahoo.com member
    My DH is weirded out by my pregnant body so no sexy time for me.  I've tried so hard to get some action and he looks at me with sad puppy dog eyes and says he just can't do it. 
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  • LittleL17LittleL17 member

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    My DH is weirded out by my pregnant body so no sexy time for me.  I've tried so hard to get some action and he looks at me with sad puppy dog eyes and says he just can't do it. 

    So can we trade husbands? Lol. Mine wants it ALL the time, and I want nothing to do with it. I feel like a bad wife. Sad

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  • shimmerairbrushshimmerairbrush
    imageErin0922:

    Mine was strong in 2nd tri. Now I'm over it.

    I tried to get DH to settle for a blowie last night, but my gag reflux reared its ugly head. So, we had the most awkward sex ever. I can't wait to feel normal again! 

    DH & i were laughing over your post and the responses it got last night! It feels good to know we are not alone in the awkwardness of it all! I never thought i'd go literally months with out sex and be ok with it!!

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  • starryeyeddreamerstarryeyeddreamer member
    Totally agree! I try to give in once a week or so, but it is awkward & uncomfortable no matter what to me. I feel bad for DH but he has been understanding about it. I hope my drive comes back after LO arrives - I miss it! I never thought I would go months & have no desire either - I am usually the one begging for it!
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  • tmlz2008tmlz2008
    imageErin0922:

    Mine was strong in 2nd tri. Now I'm over it.

    I tried to get DH to settle for a blowie last night, but my gag reflux reared its ugly head. So, we had the most awkward sex ever. I can't wait to feel normal again! 

     

    This, my DH will be glad when my gag reflex is back to normal. I will be glad when I dont have a big belly to try and manevuer in bed!  

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