So we live out of town (about 9 hours driving) from all of our friends and family.
We are doing 2 showers (1 on his side on one side of our home town) and 1 with my side on the other side of our hometown, these 2 suburbs are about 45 minutes apart).
One will be saturday and one will be sunday, so we only have to fly in once.
For the Saturday shower, was thinking 11:30 AM would be a good time, so it did not take up most of the day for people. The menu for this one (my aunts want me to pick) we were thinking of the following.
1) big green salad with lots of fruit (berries, walnuts, blue cheese on the side)
2) big bowl of waldorf salad (ie- with chicken)
3) rolls
4) mini quiches
5) fruit salad
6) shrimp cocktail
4) mini-scones and assorted pastries
Thoughts on this time and menu?
For the sunday, my SIL is planning. She wants to do 2 PM on sunday. I think they are making hot foods, like lasanga, stuffed cabbage, pirogies (spelling is wrong), salad, and cupcakes for dessert.
I think it is a big mish-mash, but she did not ask for help, so I am not saying anything as I don't think it is my place. However, I am intereted in thoughts on teh time and menu.
TIA!
Re: Saturday and Sunday time preferences and menus?
I agree on the 2 pm sunday shower being weird. My wedding shower 6 years ago was the same on his side.
The normally all eat dinner/supper on Sundays at like 3 PM, which is why they do that. Every single shower they do is like that, always on Sunday, always a giant mish-mash of crazy food. I just don't say anything as it is not my place... but I fully agree with you.
Do you think the 11:30 AM Saturday needs anything else?
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The Saturday meal sounds fab. The Sunday meal sounds good too, but the time is a little off for me but lots of people eat big meals on Sunday afternoons. I'm sure everything will be lovely. Don't worry about it.
For Saturday, I think the times is decent, but personally, 11:30 am is a little early for me on a Saturday, so unless the invite specifically references a brunch, which is what your menu kind of sounds like, I would probably not arrive until 12:30 or 1, but that's just me.
For the Sunday shower, I think the menu is fine, just a little heavy for lunch. However, due to the timing and considering people usually do things a little later on the weekend then they might normally do M-F, I definitely would expect something heavier than appetizers, but maybe not quite the full heavy meal they offering. The time is good because if people go to church or get a later start to their day, it is a good time, not too early or late.
This! I am hosting a shower in a few weeks and we chose 2 pm, and will be serving appetizer type foods, chips, dips, fruit and veggie trays, cake and oreo balls. This is after a normal lunch time, no one will be expecting to be fed lunch unless indicated on the invite, and will more than likely be full from their own.