TTC After a Loss

I'm sad today

* My clueless co-irker just spend 30 minutes in my office complaining about how her clothes don't fit

* My unwed cousin announced on FB Friday that she saw the HB and is due a day before my b-day

* DH and I fought on and off all day yesterday (I think our opposite work schedules is really stressing us out)

* The Packers lost in a heartbreaking way last night

Note: I'm usually annoyed with whiney posts about being sad when other people are pg - so I appologize in advance.

 

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Re: I'm sad today

  • *big hugs*
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  • I hope today gets better for you.  Hang in there!
  • sorry you're sad, feel better.

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  • oh peetie. I'm sorry. any chance you can take a fe wminute break to yourself today? grab a coffee? take a walk (although if your weather is like ours I wouldn't want to take a walk!) -- get to the gym? it's so hard when our minds are cluttered with frustrations.

    the packers really hung on - so sad. 

    (ps: your cabinets look AWESOME! great job!)

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • I'm sorry you are sad today.

    You Packers fans take losses so very hard....

    Just kidding. Tell Co-Irker you have a headache and don't want to talk today.

    Hugs. 

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    oh peetie. I'm sorry. any chance you can take a fe wminute break to yourself today? grab a coffee? take a walk (although if your weather is like ours I wouldn't want to take a walk!) -- get to the gym? it's so hard when our minds are cluttered with frustrations.

    the packers really hung on - so sad. 

    (ps: your cabinets look AWESOME! great job!)

    It is cold and I brought some coffee.  I've been avoiding her for some time.  She knows about both losses and HCG drama, but still thought I'd give a d@mn about her wardrobe woes.  I was nice and asked her when the big u/s was.  Which was first time I asked her anything pg related (I don't want to make that a habit).

    Thanks, I'm so glad the cabinets are done! 

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  • Im sorry!!!  I hope that your day gets better!
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    I'm sorry you are sad today.

    You Packers fans take losses so very hard....

    Just kidding. Tell Co-Irker you have a headache and don't want to talk today.

    Hugs. 

    So true! 

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  • imagePeetiePie:

    * My clueless co-irker just spend 30 minutes in my office complaining about how her clothes don't fit

    * My unwed cousin announced on FB Friday that she saw the HB and is due a day before my b-day

    * DH and I fought on and off all day yesterday (I think our opposite work schedules is really stressing us out)

    * The Packers lost in a heartbreaking way last night

    Note: I'm usually annoyed with whiney posts about being sad when other people are pg - so I appologize in advance.

     

    I'm so sorry that everything is piling up on you.  I hope things pick up for you soon. 

    Also, I'm peeved about my Packers, too. 

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  • *  co-irker is a biotch, put laxitives in her coffee

    *  yay for your cousin, boo for the rest of the world

    *  DH and I had a day like that on Saturday and I was seriously picturing me stabbing him in his retina.

    *  sorry bout the packers, my team is the Bucs and i think they are 0-9834792, so i understand. 

    ((((big hugs)))) 

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  • There is no reason what so ever, to apologize for your feelings.  It is your right to have them and you are very justified to feel sad.  It happens to all of us.  I wish I could give you an IRL hug.  I hope things start looking up for you soon!
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    I'm sorry you are sad today.

    You Packers fans take losses so very hard....

    Just kidding. Tell Co-Irker you have a headache and don't want to talk today.

    Hugs. 

    So true! 

     

    So VERY true! My husband looked heartsick when the Cardinals took it in overtime!

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  • Don't you dare apologize!

    Big hugs!

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  • I'm sorry. I hope things look up the rest of the day.
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  • No apologies, hon.  Sometimes it can just catch us off guard, even when we think we are beyond certain emotions.

    (((Hugs))) I hope that your day gets better.

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  • Whine away!!!  That's what we're here for.  You can't always be "the rock."

    {{{hugs}}}

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  • BIG {{{hugs}}}
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  • Sorry Peetie, Big Huge Hugs. 

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  • I'm so sorry you are having a sad/bad day......I hope it gets better.
  • Don't apologize. I'm sorry you're feeling down. I was thinking about you watching the Packers last night, that was awful. And of course everything else, you deserve to have a sad day once in a while.
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  • I'm sorry you're having a rough day. But you're entitled. I hope the rest of your day gets better.
  • Lots and lots of hugs!
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