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Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months
Do I HAVE to go??
My brother's girlfriend's baby shower is today and I don't really want to go. It's cold and wet and this thing is supposed to be outside. It's being organized by her family and it's the biggest mess ever. The invitations say 3pm and so our side of the invitees think it's 3pm but turns out her mom has not been giving out invites but telling people it's after SIX pm. WTF???? Also, her family volunteered to organize it but they made my brother, who is broke, buy the ALCOHOL, cake etc. Again, WTF???? That money could have been spent on stuff for the baby! She is due on Feb 4 and as NOTHING. My brother, however, seems to have no balls or spine and didn't stand up to her crazy ass mother.
My own mom ended up having to pay for the stuff he was told to buy cause he has no money and she's pissed, quite rightfuly so. I don't get this at all and I'd rather just stay home. I love my brother but man, he should have worn a condom. They are 19 and 20 years old and it's obvious they have NOOO idea what they're in for.
So, do I HAVE to go????? I'd rather just stay home where it's sane, warm and dry.
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Re: Do I HAVE to go??
Sadly, I think you do have to go because it is your brother's baby and is your future niece/nephew. But you definitely do not have to stay long. Make up an excuse, give her her present, then leave. End of story.
If you do not go there might be a lot more drama in your future...
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Oh dear. That situation (and circumstances) suck any which way you spin them. As much as I can completely agree with your desire to stay home, I'm going to say it would probably be best to suck it up and at least make an appearance. From the sounds of it, your Mom may need some moral support at this clusterf*ck too.
And you may have some super Klassy stories for us when you get back
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neither of my SILs came to my shower. (one sil was building a house and they had to get the roof on before it snowed, the other has family obligations- her daughter was sick)
they both sent gifts and called that day and congratulated us and apologized for not coming. it reallllllly was NOT that big of a deal. showers, in the over all scheme of things, should not determine a relationship. just call her and let her know you have some family things to take care of and send a gift.
What time is your mom going?
You really should make an appearance. Drop off the gift and say Liev isn't feeling well. Then leave.
This.