I had to stop BFing (other than morning and evening comfort feedings) when DS was 8 mo bc I lost my supply when I got pregnant. Anyways, I stopped the last BFing this week and DS is so upset! In the morning, DH has to get DS when he wakes and if he sees me he gets to upset!! It breaks my heart and I miss it do
much!!! I wanted to stop to have a 3 month break before LO#2 arrives. I never thought it'd be this hard because he didn't seem to care at all about losing all of the other feedings awhile ago! Has anyone else dealt with this?
Re: How emotionally hard on LO was weaning?
I don't think LO noticed or missed it at all. By 10 months we were only nursing 1-2 during the night time. She was ready to crawl everywhere and could use a cup by then, so I think that a cup was better because it was faster.
I had a harder time (emotionally) weaning than DD did.
Oh, I'm so sorry. DS took to it really easily, we weaned really slowly and completely weaned when I went away for the weekend so I wasn't there as a reminder to what he was missing.
Instead of BF, I would give him warm milk in a sippy and he ended up liking it better! Have you tried replacing his nursing sessions with regular milk?
Maybe you just have to fit something in your nighttime routine to take the place of BF? We've been doing some milk in a sippy right before bed, but we're trying to break that habit because I don't want him to be drinking milk right before bed...I don't really know what we'll do instead, but I think that really helped us make the transition.