Hello ladies!! Due to some personal and computer issues, I haven't been on here in a couple of months and I have missed it and wondered how everyone and their lil ones are doing?! Me, Cadance and my mom got moved back in Nov. and then my mom had to have a hysterectomy and things have been outright crazy...
Get a load of this bunch of BS....I talk to my DD father's ex who is the mother of my DD 1/2 brother..well, she has been telling me that he is always literally crying to her and others that I won't let him see Cadance or any of his family is not allowed to see her...well hello ppl!! You ALL know where I live, my phone # and my email addy and no-one has EVER bothered to contact me to see the baby I am supposedly keeping from them. Well, I live with my mom and told her about him literally crying over not getting to see her, blah, blah....well, my mom suggested that we set up a day, a time and get ahold of these ppl. somehow...She text messages his father explaining what is going on, that we were trying to set up a time and place for them to see the baby. Well, no surprise here but the next day, she texted him back asking if he had got ahold of DD father (we have no way of contacting him) and he said that yes he had and he had said NO...he is not coming. Well, the whole family had no interest in this meeting. WOW!! Pretty pathetic that they actually had a chance to see the baby but declined. My mom told his father that it would be time to put hard feelings and hate aside for the sake of the baby if they wanted to see her, that we were willing to do that. But of course, they obviously don't want to see her as bad as they all say....I just feel bad for Cadance sometimes but thank god she is too young to even know that side of her family I guess. Sorry, I just had to vent about this...oh and went back to child support court on 12-7, he did not show up and the judge ruled in my favor, "awarding" me 75 a week which I will probably NEVER see! She is 9 months old and he has only given me 50 bucks! This crap just sucks!!![]()
Re: Im finally back on here!! VENT 2!!
it sounds like it!! My job cut me to 30 hours a week and he is making money like crazy...maybe that is why...I won't be seeing a dime I already know!!
I get $50 a month. Crazy.
Wow I cant believe you only get that much... I am court ordered $1082 a month but only get about $958 because they will only take 50% of his wage. Thank you lord my stbx is military!