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FU to Phantom Symptoms are killing me/AKA Attack of the Mind Fetus

Cissi64Cissi64
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I posted a few days ago about phantom symptoms showing around O and as PMS before AF.  Nausea and breast tenderness are still going strong and now I have heartburn and still occaisionally "Sniss"(Newbies- check the glossary at the left).  In the spirit of optimism, I decided to POAS ( AF is due Jan 5 or 6) with an "Answer-Early answer" test ( the last I have). No surprise BFN.

Dear God,

Could you please take the phantom symptoms away? Or at least make them real symptoms?  Also, can you take away the part of my brain and heart  that hurt so much and won't give up on this impossible yearning?

Thanks

Amen

Sorry to be a Debbie Downer. I have had a lot of bad/ hurtful experiences over the holidays and I have tried to keep them in because I don't want to bring every one else down.  There has been a lot of positive energy and optimism lately.  I pray for all of you guys every day ( multiple times) and I can't wait to see BFP's ticker and baby pics (Just not from FH with no losses.LOL)!

dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • asiamina08asiamina08
    I feel your pain. I have been nauseated since yesterday and continuing on to today. I will test tommorow DPO 9, but I know that these symptoms are phantom because it is too early in my cyclefor these to be real. I cried last night in frustration because I have the same symptoms every time around this time in my cycle and no BFP! I wish phantom symptoms always equals BFP! Wait a few more days and test again. I hope both of or symptoms are real this time!!!
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    imageasiamina08:
    I feel your pain. I have been nauseated since yesterday and continuing on to today. I will test tommorow DPO 9, but I know that these symptoms are phantom because it is too early in my cyclefor these to be real. I cried last night in frustration because I have the same symptoms every time around this time in my cycle and no BFP! I wish phantom symptoms always equals BFP! Wait a few more days and test again. I hope both of or symptoms are real this time!!!

    Thanks!  I hope yours are real and not phantom. And thanks for replying. I know I'm not one of the "cool kids" but I ws feeling really alone with high "read" count and no reply.

    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

    PAL/PGAL Welcome

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  • StaribethStaribeth
    I am right there with you on the phantom symptoms and the negative feelings about the holidays. (((Hugs)))
    Three losses in 2009, a miracle in 2010! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker The Method to My Madness, a PPD blog
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  • FierylocksFierylocks

    I'm getting the phantom symptoms attacks, too--usually nausea in the mornings and heartburn later on.  Such a bummer.

    Don't be afraid to post about your hurtful experiences and frustration.  There are plenty of those every day, so just join in.  It's part of the point of this board. 

    But I hope your symptoms really aren't phantom, though, and this is your cycle. 

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  • klk2klbklk2klb member
    We're on a roll here so hopefully you'll continue with the good news this year.  I hope you stay sick for 3 months...with a bfp!  Good luck to you.  I'll be praying for you, too.
    Pregnancy Ticker dx Hypothyroidism 11/08 BFP #1 10.12.09, Missed m/c at 11 wks 3 days measuring 9 wks, no hb D&C 12.01.09 BFP #2 11.22.11...Summer Elizabeth Born 11.29.11! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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