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TTC After a Loss
BFF ditched me on NYE (NTTCALR)
Ok . . . totally not TTCAL related, but I have to vent. For some reason, this has me almost in tears.
My BFF (since the first year of college) and I have had sort of a "long distance" friendship for the past few years. First, I went off to vet school while she stayed here, and then when I came back, she was in her first years of med school in a different city. She is back for now, but will occasionally travel out of town for some school rotations. I don't know where she will end up for her residency next year. Despite all of this, we have remained pretty close, although I feel us drifting a little farther apart this year. She has med school friends, and another close group of friends in the area that I know but they are more "her friends" than mine. Her other groups of friends are more fun than I am . . . hands down. Part of it is because of my job . . . I can't go out late at night during the week. I really can't go out on Fridays because I work every Saturday. They are acting as if they are in college (and we are 28, good for them) and I have my nose to the grindstone.
Long story short . . . she invited me to go out with her and her group of friends (who I know) on NYE. She said they were just hanging out at a local restaurant/bar and drinking. Made it sound completely low key, and said that DH and I should totally come. So last night, I text her about when we should meet. You should have seen her responses! She acted completely put out, and basically told me that she would try to get another/bigger table, but if I didn't show or was late, it would cause significant problems for her. Completely snotty tone. It doesn't sound that bad now, but out of character for my friend, and she basically "uninvited" me! I told her I didn't have to go if it would be a problem, and then she never texted/called me back.
In the end, I don't mind being at home, but WTH? She is leaving for NM soon, and I may not see her for months, but she was less than welcoming about tonight. I don't feel like begging to see her. I would have happily stood near the bar or something like that, but again, what's with the attitude?
Sorry for the long vent. I just don't have many IRL friends (sad, I know), and I could always count on her.
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Re: BFF ditched me on NYE (NTTCALR)
Eww, that's totally snotty. I hate people who aren't "the more the merrier" types. Yuck.
And on behalf of pet owners everywhere, I would like to give you my heartfelt thanks for resisting the urge to tie one on every night, 7 hours before you operate on my dog. (in theory, since you don't operate on my dogs in real life)
Well, thank you!
She usually is a "the more the merrier type" which is why this is so weird. I was only popping in for an hour to two anyway, because surprise, surprise, I'm on call for work tomorrow!
Oh well, movies and a glass of champagne with DH doesn't sound that bad.
Sorry, that sounds rough.
That's a really crappy thing for her to do
Why would she ask you to go if she didn't mean it?
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