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Clicky Poll: Should I or shouldn't I? (FB related)

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I'm a little bored so here's a poll!  I typically try to have positive status updates but today I just don't feel like it.  Part of me wants to post something about being glad 2009 is over and looking forward to 2010 but part of me doesn't want to have to explain to the people who didn't know about my mc.  Should I post what I'm feeling or just let it go?[Poll]
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Re: Clicky Poll: Should I or shouldn't I? (FB related)

  • hbkiseshbkises member

    If we have to put up with all the fertiles posting every single time they rub their belly, I think the FB world can handle you being honest about how you're feeling...I say post your feelings!

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  • ihearteddiebooihearteddieboo

    Yeah, I had this exact same problem last night.  If you go back a few pages you will see my post about it.  I posted yesterday about being glad 2009 is over and looking forward to 2010 and my DH's family (never asking me why 2009 was bad) jumped in and started listing all the good things that happened to other people in 2009, so and so had her baby, I had my baby, you became an aunt, etc. This made me irrationally angry and I had a minor meltdown. 

    Just wanted to put it out there that some people may ask you what happened and others may list all the things that happened you should be thankful for, even if they didn't happen to you directly.  I'm on FB hiatus right now.

    Happy New Year!

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  • asiamina08asiamina08
    imagehbkises:

    If we have to put up with all the fertiles posting every single time they rub their belly, I think the FB world can handle you being honest about how you're feeling...I say post your feelings!

     I completly agree!! I think you should be aloud to post how your feeling. If people don't like it, they don't have to respond

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  • ihearteddiebooihearteddieboo
    I also want to add that I think you should post your feelings.  I have to read when people post about their m/s and bloat, so they should be able to handle the other side of the coin.  It was sort of therapeutic for me to post how I was feeling and made me feel better when people said "yeah, me too, can't wait for 2010."  Misery loves company, I guess.    
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  • schen0510schen0510

    I just updated my FB to say:  Ready for 2009 to be over...to much disappointment and heartache.  2010 is going to be the year!!

    If people don't know I lost my boys then they probably didn't know I was pg.  Don't care either way!

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