Was it a mutual decision or is one of you driving the decision? We have been all over the place, but my DS finally told me the other day that he doesn't want any more children. I have mixed feelings about it. However, I did know that he only wanted one child when we got married. I was okay with it then, but now I feel differently. This is a tough one. I'm also 38, so I don't have the luxury of time anyway.