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first edd and V-Day (PIP)

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well it's my V-DAY!! hooray!! also our first EDD today.  i hope i don't get flamed for this but i am not really very sad... i think that i definately would be if i was not pregnant again though.  i have just been focusing on our baby boy and the fact that it's v-day.  it has helped too that he has been having a really active day with lots of kicking! :) 

 (by the way i know i look way bigger than 24 weeks...my bump is huge! maybe i can blame some of it on the stripes on the shirt)

 

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  • carasizemorecarasizemore member
    Congrats on V-day! Great milestone!
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  • Lisa10eLisa10e

    Congrats on Vday! You look beautiful!

    And you dont have to be sad to remember. You can remember and miss your lo without being sad. And you have every right to be happy today! No flames here.

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  • meggiejomeggiejo
    Congrats on making it to V day! I found my 1st EDD hard because I had just had my second mc. I am hoping to be in your shoes when my second comes around and not see it as a sad day. If this helps my grandma had a mc right before she had my dad and she always says she is okay with loosing that baby since my dad would not have been born if it weren't for her loss.Always looking for the silver lining!
    BFP #1: DS born 11/07 BFP #2: m/c @ 8w 5d d&c
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  • jen-dalejen-dale member

    Congrats on the milestone! I won't flame you for not feeling sad. It is nice to reflect but especially being pregnant again I know you can't help but focus on the life you have growing inside you.

    My 1st EDD was a little sad, but I am pretty sure that is the night we conceived this baby!Stick out tongue

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  • OregonPacheyOregonPachey member
    I think you look beautiful!  And congrats on making it to Vday.
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  • TinaL99TinaL99 member
    Congrats on V-Day!  And I totally unserstand about it being easier to deal with your EDD since you are pg again.  I think that made the anniversary of finding out about the BO easier on us.  You can still remember your LO without being sad. 
    DD1: 3/31/10 DD2: 9/7/11
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  • mrstyson03mrstyson03
    Happy V-Day!!! Yay, what an awesome milestone. I don't think your bump looks huge at all. It's adorable.
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  • emma9emma9
    congratulations!!
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  • abs711abs711 member

    Congrats!

    You would never get flamed for that or atleast from me you wouldn't.  I was very sad on my 1st EDD because I had just had my second loss.  But for my second loss EDD I was 17 weeks pg with this LO so it made it a lot easier.

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  • wannabmommywannabmommy
    Yay for v-day! You're almost to the 3rd tri!
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