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It's been one of those days...

thamesiethamesie member
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You know... the days where everything makes you cry and you really don't know why. Had a great conversation with DH today. I called him in the middle of my breakdown after going to three different stores to find jeans to wear with my new boots.

DH: Hello

Me: (sobbing)

DH: What's wrong?

Me: (more sobbing)..... I can't fit into my reg size!

DH: Oh... that's ok.

Me: No... it's not!

DH: Soo.....     Did you find any jeans?

Me: ................ (I hung up)

I know I was probably over reacting but I was/am really upset. It would be different if I was pg or have a baby to show for the fact that I can't wear the same size anymore but... I dont! He just doesn't understand...

BabyFruit Ticker BFP#1 8/15/09 missed mc, d&c 10/22/09 @ 9wks BFP#2 1/28/10 natural mc 2/16/10 @ 5w1d BFP#3 2/07/11 med induced mc 3/11/11 @ 8 wks BFP#4 6/25/11 waiting on Baby Brant to arrive 3/1/12! "...For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future..." Jeremiah 29:11
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Re: It's been one of those days...

  • schen0510schen0510
    No joke...this exact same conversation is what lead DH into telling me to see a therapist, start a diet, and order and exercise program.  I did all 3, lost 15 lbs, and feel so much better.  Did you find a nice pair of black boots though?  You mentioned needing a new pair earlier.
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    Hope your day gets better! (((hugs)))
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Mrs.KristenMrs.Kristen
    I've had the same convo before and got told we have insurance if I need a therapist. Men...
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  • bebebluesbebeblues
    If it makes u feel any better, I weigh more now than I ever have. I'm almost as much as I was when I delivered dd. It's pretty depressing. I seem to stress differently w/different situations. When I was dealing w/crap w/dh awhile back, I weighed next to nothing.......after the BO and d&c, I packed on the lbs.
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  • thamesiethamesie member

    Thanks... I did get a pair of boots. I got some putty colored ones so that I can wear them with black and brown. Maybe I need to get those new Rebok shoes that tone you.

    I really don't have a right to whine... I forgot to mention that during this conversation I was downing a cheeseburger from McDonalds. It def didn't help my situation but made me feel better for a minute!

    BabyFruit Ticker BFP#1 8/15/09 missed mc, d&c 10/22/09 @ 9wks BFP#2 1/28/10 natural mc 2/16/10 @ 5w1d BFP#3 2/07/11 med induced mc 3/11/11 @ 8 wks BFP#4 6/25/11 waiting on Baby Brant to arrive 3/1/12! "...For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future..." Jeremiah 29:11
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