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What's with all the puppies and rainbows? LIP

Lambie.Lambie. member
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Why is everyone saying this is great?  If DH said something to like that to me, an "I'm sorry" and a few kisses aren't going to make it better and I can't hold a grudge to save my life.

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Re: What's with all the puppies and rainbows? LIP

  • robinsokjrobinsokj member
    I completely agree
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  • JalynSueJalynSue member
    Does LIP mean link in post?! Just guessing?
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  • amy0105amy0105

    It's more about support for Ally than for how he handled the situation...

    I'm sure it's not over in her eyes either...you don't just forget about that...

     

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  • lisa5201lisa5201 member

    Wow, I feel terrible for her. Her dh sounds like a real doucheface. That's not the kind of thing you say and then take back later, and expect it to be okay. Especially with three children and one on the way

    Emotional abuse is abuse. I wouldn't want to be with a guy like that

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  • butterbeansmamabutterbeansmama

    I didn't see the original post, but what I caught from your link was that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with her. You have 4 children with someone and all of a sudden you aren't sure? Hmmmm. If I were her, I would be wondering if there isn't someone else in the picture.

    I feel so bad for her and I hope it's nothing but "nerves" on his part, but I would be very weary.

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  • MNgirl326MNgirl326 member
    imageLambie.:

    Why is everyone saying this is great?  If DH said something to like that to me, an "I'm sorry" and a few kisses aren't going to make it better and I can't hold a grudge to save my life.

     

    i agree

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  • dixielanedixielane

    I see what you mean. I think its a silly cop out that a man can freak out, just cause he's a man and isn't the one actually pregnant...I didnt read her original post from last night, but still.

    With a baby on the way, if my relationship had verbal abuse in it, I'd seek help......a little counseling with an expert, or even at a church can help out.

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  • vegandyvegandy
    I'm sure this post is going to make her feel much better about her situation.
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  • niki731niki731
    imagebutterbeansmama:

    I didn't see the original post, but what I caught from your link was that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with her. You have 4 children with someone and all of a sudden you aren't sure? Hmmmm. If I were her, I would be wondering if there isn't someone else in the picture.

    I feel so bad for her and I hope it's nothing but "nerves" on his part, but I would be very weary.

    I agree

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  • Lambie.Lambie. member
    This post isn't about her, it's about the responses.
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  • MrsEmmMrsEmm
    To each their own. I personally tend to hold on to things a bit more than that - so I cant say *Id* be able to let that go - BUT im glad that she feels better about it. Seems to me, theres a lot more to worry about there than holding a grudge in her situation. Theres several children and a baby on the way - not to mention her own health & stress level as shes pregnant. Im not here to worry about other peoples marriages/relationships - im here to *** about how much weight im gaining and how bad I want another twinkie ;)
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  • ImBatmom2507ImBatmom2507 member
    imageamy0105:

    It's more about support for Ally than for how he handled the situation...

    I'm sure it's not over in her eyes either...you don't just forget about that...

     

     

    I agree with this. Ally needs support, not heckling for how she chose to handle the situation. I 'm sure there's more going on behind the scenes than she cared to share.

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  • preppynewlywedpreppynewlywed member
    imageLambie.:

    Why is everyone saying this is great?  If DH said something to like that to me, an "I'm sorry" and a few kisses aren't going to make it better and I can't hold a grudge to save my life.

    Agreed.

    Also, if my DH just had a "freak out" like that his arse would be sleeping in a hotel.

    That isn't a freakout...it is sheer douchebagginess.

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  • FutureMECCFutureMECC

    imageMrsEmm:
    To each their own. I personally tend to hold on to things a bit more than that - so I cant say *Id* be able to let that go - BUT im glad that she feels better about it. Seems to me, theres a lot more to worry about there than holding a grudge in her situation. Theres several children and a baby on the way - not to mention her own health & stress level as shes pregnant. Im not here to worry about other peoples marriages/relationships - im here to *** about how much weight im gaining and how bad I want another twinkie ;)

    LMAO

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  • amy0105amy0105

    imagevegandy:
    I'm sure this post is going to make her feel much better about her situation.

    THIS X100!!! 

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  • robinsokjrobinsokj member
    imageamy0105:

    imagevegandy:
    I'm sure this post is going to make her feel much better about her situation.

    THIS X100!!! 

    As OP stated, this is in response to the responses...not the OP of that post.  It would be like your friends telling you it was ok to be in a verbally abusive relationship.  

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  • MrsBalletStar05MrsBalletStar05 member
    I tend to think a lot of women suggest the extreme on this board with tough situations, so I really don't mind the responses she received. 
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  • allyandpat2010allyandpat2010
    Ack I should clarify. I didn't just let him go "oh I'm sorry" and everything was ok. There was a lot more to it than that, which included me b*tching his ass out for several hours. I told him straight up if he wants that single life he can march out the door and not look back
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  • robinsokjrobinsokj member

    imageallyandpat2010:
    Ack I should clarify. I didn't just let him go "oh I'm sorry" and everything was ok. There was a lot more to it than that, which included me b*tching his ass out for several hours. I told him straight up if he wants that single life he can march out the door and not look back

    Well then...Good for you!

     

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  • Dreamsicle23Dreamsicle23 member
    Judgmental much?  I saw is a post somewhere last night someone said "wow I didn't know women married assh*les".  Congratulations to you who found perfect men that never, ever pull the occasional d!ck move.  
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