So I was doing great for a few weeks, but now I'm worrying about SIDS so much I don't know what to do. I just feel so helpless, like there's nothing I can do to keep my baby from dying. I know it's technically "rare" but I can't stop myself from imagining the horror of finding my son dead.2 out of every 500 babies dying for no apparent reason scares the hell out of me. Is anyone else having a really hard time with this? How do you handle the fear?