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So Douchebag came to pick up Pumpkin for Christmas about 4:00pm. He brought her home about 10:00pm. She is supposed to spend this week with him, and he knows it, but he brought her home last night. I am happy that she's home, so I didn't mention it. He came in my house after P told him that I didn't want him there and literally started to pick a fight with me (he tried to do that on Christmas Eve too, but I hung up on him). So here we are fighting in the living room of my home on Christmas Day. Nice. I asked him to leave like 6 times, and he only left after I completely lost my cool and told him off. I mean yelling, cussing, get the F out of my house, lost my cool.
Oh and he or his family didn't get Jackson one effing thing for Christmas. Just to be sure that he didn't leave it at his parents house, I called his mom. I told her that I felt bad that she didn't get to see her grandson on Christmas, and I'm sure they want to give him his gifts, so why don't I bring him over to their house so they can see him. I also said that I realize that if I don't facilitate visits between them that they would never see him. She told me that they were not home, and wouldn't be home until late tonight. She said they had to go visit people while FIL was off of work. I asked her about tomorrow. I said I can come to your house, you can come to mine, or I can meet you somewhere. She said she would be busy. She said she would call me when she has some time. So she is too busy "visiting" other people today, and she can't see her only grandson!
That's it! I give up! To hell with all of them, and the sooner the better. Oh, and Pumpkin's presents will be boxed up and sent to her father's house with a letter about how he has two children, and he will buy for both or he will buy for none. This way I will get my point across to Douchebag, and she will still be able to play with her stuff at her father's house. I talked to my attorney and he agreed this is the best way to handle it. I certainly hope so.
Re: Christmas with the Warrens
That is so crazy. I still don't see how you can accept one child and not the other. It takes a very nasty person (or in this case, people) to be like that. I don't blame you for sending the gifts to keep at his place though I do feel bad for your dd. Kids are very perceptive and I'm sure she's taking all of this in. I'm sure she will see her dad for the ass he is though.
Merry Christmas.
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