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Why is this happening NOW?!

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For whatever reason, I was totally okay with DS having to go to daycare. While I was pregnant, it broke my heart and I cried about it. But PP I knew it had to happen.

Anthony felt like such an easy transition. Like a, "Oh yeah, okay, this is what we do now, let's go with the flow and move on."  Not a big production or anything. So that's how daycare went. "Okay, this has to happen, no prob, Bob!" sort of thing ...

Now there are days where I actually ache because I miss him.  And I've been thinking about wanting to SAH with him more and more often. I was FINE before. I was just fine.  So why now, all of a sudden, are these desires hitting me again? Especially when I know it's most definitely not possible?

le sigh.  'Tis very sad.

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  • godzprncsgodzprncs
    I completely understand! I think it is just that mommy's protective instinct that you can't help but have. I seriously would give anything to be a SAHM! One day hopefully....
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    imagegodzprncs:
    I completely understand! I think it is just that mommy's protective instinct that you can't help but have. I seriously would give anything to be a SAHM! One day hopefully....

    I say that, too. But I feel like Veruca Salt ... I want it NOW!

    But aside from that ... I like my job! It's just so weird ...

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  • LSU628LSU628 member
    I think as they get older and recognize us, it makes it harder to leave them. Plus, they are doing new and exciting things every day and I'm so afraid of missing the good stuff. My DD stays with my mom and MIL, but I also miss her like crazy and can't wait to get home from work to see her. Unfortunately, since DH is self-employed I have to work for our insurance. :-(
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  • SoonToBeTaborSoonToBeTabor

    Im a SAHM

    You bring him to me and I will love on him all day for you

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  • purple_posiespurple_posies
    imageSoonToBeTabor:

    Im a SAHM

    You bring him to me and I will love on him all day for you

    I think it would be harder for me to have someone I like watching him. Not that I don't like our DC lady ... but she's not one of my friends. That probably makes no sense.

    But heck, what a commute that would be!! lol. ;)

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