As always I am seeking your babywise advice ![]()
The twins are starting to STTN and they were eating at 4a, 8a, 12p, 4p, 8p - going to bed at 9:30 in their cribs after bath and book. Now they have slept until 6:30a - which is great but it messes up their wake up time (which was 8am). I know the book says to establish a wake up time... should I wake them up at 9:00am and feed them even if it has only been 3 hours? They wake up extremely happy when I wake them up before they want to (ie before 4 hours between feedings).. but they don't want to eat (Sam can't hold the bottle in his mouth because he is too busy smiling
What would you do?
Thanks as always for your help!!
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they already go 4 hours between feedings? You are lucky! None of mine did - Griffin didn't until he started lots of regular foods - he still wanted a bottle every 3 hours even when on solid baby foods. The twins are still on 3 hours for bottles - lucky girl
i wouldn't stress so much about what time they wake up - just start wheenever they wake up as that day's wakeup time. Our guys wake up between 6-7am... every now and then they sleep until 7:30... so whatever time they wake up = their start time for that day - and we go 3 hours from then... it's pretty amazing though, they usually even out and get back to their regular 7-10-1-4-7pm schedule at some point during the day - no matter when they wake up... one of their naps will be longer or shorter and they end up back on their regular schedule - their bodies are so tuned in to when it's time to eat.
Sometimes now they wake up long before it's time to eat - so i let them play until they start to show hunger signs - which is almost always their normal eating time.
just play it by ear- be flexible. You won't always have an easy day to predict - but for the most part you can know ABOUT what time they'll eat that day.
Thanks! Mine sometimes need woken up at the 4 hour mark.. they eat about 6oz at a time.. is that how much yours did? They also wake up before it is time to eat.. but seem to like playing for a while so we just go with it.
Thanks for getting back to me so quickly
Gibby eats 6oz every bottle...he has for a long time. Gray eats between 3-6oz/bottle- you never know with him- he's got reflux and is my picky eater. They have 5 bottles/day and started solids at 5mo, too.