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I have to AW my DH.

HugginAngelHugginAngel
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Yesterday at work I was doing applesauce cinnamon ornaments with the clients and I saw a really nice angel cutter so I took the extra dough and made 2 angels. I then put the dates on the back one for Noah and one for our little bunny.

We were sitting watching TV last night and DH asked what smelled so strong of cinn. So I showed him the ornaments and that I had engraved the back with the dates. He smiled and said,"never forget that when the day comes that you go to heaven you'll have 2 little babies waiting for you, and if we can't have any children here and now, I think knowing that we'll have 2 babies for eternity isn't a bad deal. It makes me not so scared of death because then I'll get to see them"

Let me just tell you I cried for about an hour because of that. My H has always been terrified of death, but I guess not so much anymore.

I have to say sometimes I really wonder if they get how we feel because he's made the comment before he feels less connected sometimes because he never got to feel any of it or be a part of it other than a bystander, but statements like this show how much connection he did seem to have.  

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  • maritzburggirlmaritzburggirl
    So sweet....I do believe that they grieve right with us, just sometimes it's hard for them to show it and sometimes they are just trying to protect us. I am so glad he was able to tell you how he feels...
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  • Mia07Mia07

    That made me cry too.

    I agree, they just seem to show it differently than us.  What a wonderful way to think of it though.

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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    Oh my goodness, I'm crying at my desk.  That is incredibly sweet and what a positive way to look at it!  I know DH & I feel our grieving is different, but it's great when they get it in this way. 
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  • sweetbossom83sweetbossom83
    wow, very sweet and powerful. That is nice you can share that belief with him.
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  • Meghan1017Meghan1017

    imageHugginAngel:
    "never forget that when the day comes that you go to heaven you'll have 2 little babies waiting for you, and if we can't have any children here and now, I think knowing that we'll have 2 babies for eternity isn't a bad deal. It makes me not so scared of death because then I'll get to see them"

    That's awesome.  I have to say, I never even thought of it like that.  I can't wait to meet my baby in Heaven.

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  • someflower6someflower6 member
    oh my god i teared up just reading that. way to be a sweetheart, HugginAngel's DH!
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