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too good to be true.

JonolineJonoline
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All along my pregnancy things have been going EXACTLY as expected and so very smoothly.  I went to the Dr. last Thursday and he was so happy with how things were progressing that he decided he didnt need to see me for a month.  He told me I could travel by car as long as I felt comfortable (we are planning on driving 7 hours in Mid January to the ILs), and he was happy with my weight gain (or lack there of). 

Today I went in for my 3rd 20 week ultrasound (3 of them bc baby a has been on her stomach and they cant get a good picture of her heart, though they see it is fine) and the tech did my first cervical check.  Why they didnt do cervical checks at the previous 2 20 week scans I do not know.  Turns out my cervix is shorter than they would like. My Dr's office doesnt like to use numbers, but the Dr said he is not worried unless I feel a lot of pressure or have spotting.  Now im nervous.  Im sitting at work in an enviornment that I do not enjoy and is at time stressful and aggrivating and I just want to go home.  The Drs are sending me to a prenatal center for a more indepth cervial scan, the soonest appointment the rude receptionist could give me was 12/23. 

Is there anything I should be doing? Or could be doing?  I like to be a proactive person, but the Drs office hasnt given me any instructions.

I just needed to put the information out there, Im not even sure what I am asking, haha, I just know there could be problems looming in the future and I want to keep my babies nice and safe and warm for as long as possible.

Thanks!

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  • pea-kaypea-kay member
    are you seeing an MFM/perinatologist?
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  • JonolineJonoline

    imagepea-kay:
    are you seeing an MFM/perinatologist?

     

    Just my OB at this point.  He came recc from the RE as being greatly experianced with multiples.  The OB is quite a laid back practive, which usually suits me just fine, but not today I guess.

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  • cholzercholzer
    I'm at 30 weeks and haven't had my cervix ever checked but I would take it very easy and rest alot in between now and your appointment.  I know alot of ladies on here have had this problem so I'm sure you'll get lots of good advice.
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  • nygrl79nygrl79
    Can you call and demand to know the length of your cervix?  Ask for a fax of the record from your 3rd 20 week scan?  You have a right to know, this is your health and the health of your babies they are talking about.   You have a right to you records as well.   If the cervix is below 2.5 cm, I would try to stay off my feet as much as possible before the next measurement.  I would also ask my OB to consult with an MFM or I would just go see one.
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  • JonolineJonoline
    heres what seems like a silly question but what is a mfm?
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  • cholzercholzer
    An MFM is a Maternal Fetal Medicine specialist.  For the most part we all see one.   I see one once a month and he is the one who does all of my u/s
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  • nygrl79nygrl79
    Not silly at all. An MFM is a maternal fetal medicine doctor, sometimes also referred to as a perinatologist.  Many specialize in multiple gestation pregnancies, prevention of preterm labor, and high risk pregnancies in general.  Whether or not you have had a problem free pregnancy, your pregnancy is considered high risk and you are entitled to see this specialist (most insurances cover this).  You can see them as a second doctor, in addition to your OB.  Many don't deliver the babies (some do), but they consult with your OB and oversee your pregnancy.  A multiple pregnancy can go from problem free to problematic overnight and if you can, I would suggest taking the most aggressive approach.  I don't understand why your doctor doesn't like to talk numbers....when it comes to cervical length, numbers are very important.  GL.
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  • pea-kaypea-kay member

    imagenygrl79:
    Not silly at all. An MFM is a maternal fetal medicine doctor, sometimes also referred to as a perinatologist.  Many specialize in multiple gestation pregnancies, prevention of preterm labor, and high risk pregnancies in general.  Whether or not you have had a problem free pregnancy, your pregnancy is considered high risk and you are entitled to see this specialist (most insurances cover this).  You can see them as a second doctor, in addition to your OB.  Many don't deliver the babies (some do), but they consult with your OB and oversee your pregnancy.  A multiple pregnancy can go from problem free to problematic overnight and if you can, I would suggest taking the most aggressive approach.  I don't understand why your doctor doesn't like to talk numbers....when it comes to cervical length, numbers are very important.  GL.

    ditto this.

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    imagepea-kay:

    imagenygrl79:
    Not silly at all. An MFM is a maternal fetal medicine doctor, sometimes also referred to as a perinatologist.  Many specialize in multiple gestation pregnancies, prevention of preterm labor, and high risk pregnancies in general.  Whether or not you have had a problem free pregnancy, your pregnancy is considered high risk and you are entitled to see this specialist (most insurances cover this).  You can see them as a second doctor, in addition to your OB.  Many don't deliver the babies (some do), but they consult with your OB and oversee your pregnancy.  A multiple pregnancy can go from problem free to problematic overnight and if you can, I would suggest taking the most aggressive approach.  I don't understand why your doctor doesn't like to talk numbers....when it comes to cervical length, numbers are very important.  GL.

    ditto this.

    another ditto.

    I would get an appt with a peri/MFM right away.

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  • jacobandcrystaljacobandcrystal member

    Like pp suggested, I'd be calling and asking to know the actual length they measured. I like to know my own patient info and have sort of a pet peeve about it.  I've had scheduling and info problems with my OB office throughout my pregnancy so luckily I'm a person who keeps track of my own care also and what should be happening.  You are your best advocate, and unfortunately people do slip through the cracks.  I did temporarily at my OB when they failed to start scheduling non-stress tests and amniotic fluid checks.  I got a call asking me to come in the same day for them because I'd gotten missed in scheduling somehow. (We called the office manager and had a long talk about all of the issues we've had.)

    I'd also ask your doctor for a referral to a perinatologist or MFM.  If they really feel comfortable with your care, it might take some work.  It took a combination of myself and my hubby calling my OB when I was about 12 weeks along to finally get a referral to a peri, but I'm SO glad we did.  He just put me at ease with his level of knowledge and perfectionist personality!

    Good luck, I hope something works out to put you at ease and keep those babies cooking! : )

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  • hellomynameisfabuloushellomynameisfabulous
    I agree - see a peri. I had an internal u/s yesterday at my 18 week appt. and had my cervix measured. I'll be seeing him once a month from now on and will have it measured every time. Whether this is entirely necessary, I don't know - but it does give me peace of mind.
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