I know there has been at least one thread about this in the past, so I apologize. I'm a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding about 9 weeks after my EDD. She does not seem to understand how different my body is going to be at that point (and I don't even really know what to expect!). She is insisting on strapless dresses, which is going to be horrible since I know my boobs will be HUGE and she picked a dress that is very form-fitting around the midsection. I told her I really didn't feel comfortable wearing that dress, so she said I could wear a different dress from everyone else.
For any of you that have either a) been in a wedding 8-9 weeks postpartum or b) are going to be in a wedding shortly after giving birth, what type of dress are you wearing? She told me I could send her some choices... I don't even know where to begin! I was thinking empire waisted would be best, but is this just going to draw more attention to my huge boobs?! Any help would be MUCH appreciated. I'm looking for brands or styles that may be flattering, or I'm wondering whether it would be best to just buy a maternity bridesmaid dress. I'm already feeling super self-conscious, and I haven't even bought the dress yet! TIA!!