1st Trimester

Bringing DH to first OB appt?

Are any of you ladies going to have your DH come along to your first appt after getting your BFP?
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Re: Bringing DH to first OB appt?

  • DH isn't able to come to most of my appointments due to his schedule.  The first one is pretty boring, IMO.  But if you know they are doing the doppler or an ultrasound, that is a bit more important (I think anyways).  I'm going to try to get mine there for the big ultrasound around 20 weeks.
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  • H is coming to my first true prenatal appt. I had what was supposed to be my annual the day before thanksgiving when he had to meet his mom at our house so he didn't come to that one.
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  • DH came to mine always. Specially the first one (we have a new ob this time round) because they do a medical history on both of you and such. Plus sometimes DH have questions that I don't think about.

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  • DH didn't go to my first appointment - it was only with a nurse and we went over medical history and drew a lot of blood and all that.  But he will go to my first appointment with a midwife, when, hopefully, we'll be able to hear the heartbeat on Doppler.  So...  I guess it depends on what you consider your "first" appointment.

  • DH will come to the ones he can. He came to all but 2 of my appointments with DS and it got so boring at times. He'll certainly be there for any ultrasound, but other than that, it's "eh" to us.
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  • DH can come to any appointments that he wants to. He knows he is more than welcome. And I told him that if there is ever an appointment that I really want him there for, I will let him know.

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  • My DH comes with me, I get so nervous hes the voice of reason. He asks questions and remembers what the doc/midwife says etc. And its someone to talk to in the waiting room incase they are running late...which I'm noticing my ob/midwifes tend to do...
  • I'm kinda sad about this actually...My original appt was for Friday and DH has off so he would get to go.  Then my Dr. had to do an emergency c section and had to reschedule me for tomorrow so DH can't go.  My Dr. does an u/s at every appt so I really wish DH would get to be there for the 1st one.  Oh well.  I just hope they don't tell me bad news or something when I'm there by myself!
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  • imageryaroberts:
    I'm kinda sad about this actually...My original appt was for Friday and DH has off so he would get to go.  Then my Dr. had to do an emergency c section and had to reschedule me for tomorrow so DH can't go.  My Dr. does an u/s at every appt so I really wish DH would get to be there for the 1st one.  Oh well.  I just hope they don't tell me bad news or something when I'm there by myself!

    I'm jealous an ultrasound at every appointment!!

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  • Better than my husband I get to take my SON to all my appointments with me! YesYes

     

    *drips with sarcasm*

     

    lol, poor thing was so freaked out that the dr. was going to hurt me.  When they were doing the pap, we set him next to me on a chair and the Dr. told him to hold my hand so I wouldn't be scared Wink lol, it was really cute.  

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  • DH came to my first appt.  He said he doesn't want to miss out on anything!  So we will just try to schedule them late afternoon so he can leave work a little bit early. They will probably try and listen for the heartbeat with the doppler, depending on how far along you will be at the time.  

     

    Good luck to you guys.  

  • I'd like him to come to any appointment he is able to. it's OUR child so I feel like he should be as much a part of everything as possible.
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    imageryaroberts:
    I'm kinda sad about this actually...My original appt was for Friday and DH has off so he would get to go.  Then my Dr. had to do an emergency c section and had to reschedule me for tomorrow so DH can't go.  My Dr. does an u/s at every appt so I really wish DH would get to be there for the 1st one.  Oh well.  I just hope they don't tell me bad news or something when I'm there by myself!

    I'm jealous an ultrasound at every appointment!!

    I know!  That's one of the reasons I picked him, even before I had even considered having kids! 

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  • My H is coming to our first appointment. I think he has questions too and,since this is our first, I think he is eager to know how things are progressing.
  • DH will be going to my first OB appointment(which will be at 8 weeks).  We will be hearing the heatbeat, having an U/S and probably getting a lot of information so he definitely wants to be there.

     I went for a b/w comfirmation apppointment with my primary care doctor at 4 weeks and he didn't come to that since it was quick(and we didn't get the results that day anyway). 

    As far as other appointments he would like to come as long as it works with his work schedule. 

  • DH has come to both so far because I have a high risk pregnancy.

    I had major surgery this summer {see siggy}, so he was already coming to my OB appointments starting in about April of this year.

    He works for a very family friendly company, so they encourage him to make sure he is available to go to all appointments.

  • DH will be coming to my first appointment b/c they will be doing an u/s. He will come to any appt where they do a u/s or where we receive any information, test results, ect. He will try to come to every appt, but I don't really see it neccessary if it's nothing too big.

  • nope.  he come to the ultrasounds, which are scheduled separate from the appointments.
  • My "first" appointment and ultrasound was at 6 weeks due to spotting and since it was spur of the moment MH did not come.  My 8 week appointment is tomorrow and MH will be there.  I am having an ultrasound so he wants to be there.  Plus he knows I am nervous and I want him there.
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  • Yes.

     

    His family medical history is very long and complicated, so it was important to have him there so he could explain it all.

  • Yes, He will be at every appointment. He wants to be and I want him to be.
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    Yes, He will be at every appointment. He wants to be and I want him to be.

    same for us for our first pregnancy and this one.

  • Yep ours is tomorrow and he took the day off so that we could go together and he plans to try to be at every one unless it is impossible with his job. We cant wait til tomorrow!
  • DH tries to come to everyone. Our first appt they did and u/s to date the pregnancy.
  • DH is coming to the first one for sure- where viability will be confirmed and heartbeat checked. I don't know what I would do if he couldn't make that one- good or bad news.
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  • Yes Dh is comming to the first appt tomorrow. He is going to try and come to all of them -bribing his boss with extra liquor bottles we have hanging around lol whatever works right?

    My dr also does a sono at every appt. she has the machine in the office.

    where in NY are you? i kinda think your on the Island by your SN. Im on LI

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    Yes Dh is comming to the first appt tomorrow. He is going to try and come to all of them -bribing his boss with extra liquor bottles we have hanging around lol whatever works right?

    My dr also does a sono at every appt. she has the machine in the office.

    where in NY are you? i kinda think your on the Island by your SN. Im on LI

     

    I'm in upstate NY!  I got married in a garden.. that's where the name is from!  :)

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