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Update on baby girl's neck mass (long)

I talked to my OB yesterday because I wanted to know what the specialist's findings were--and the specialist thinks that she has a cervical termatoma--a very rare congenital neck tumor (most always benign). I researched it online and found that it is operable and when caught early they can save babies with this condition (via delivery by special c section and then remove the tumor)--I even found 4 success stories so far and have contacted those parents--these children have very little residual effects from having had the teratoma and surgeries. It's still a long road and the scariest part for my girl is that they found it so early in the pregnancy (17 weeks) which according to the research is the time they usually find it, but for the moms I've met, their child's was caught at 26-28 weeks. The scary in it being caught so early is that it can continue to grow and the concern there is that her heart may fail or the mass can grow so much that it would cause her to pass away inside. So it's still a very scary battle, BUT there is hope. I have hope again, where 2 days ago I had none. It will be baby steps taken day by day and completely trusting in and relying on God to get me thru each day and to take care of baby girl but for whatever reason, knowing what is wrong with her has given me hope again--given me something to research, pray specifically about, and fight for.

Would you all please continue to pray for her, and for her dad and I? I will keep you posted with every update as it comes. The first hurdle is the amnio results where it will hopefully rule out any chromosomal abnormality. I get those results next week. The specialist's nurse is also researching to find out who does those special deliveries and surgeries that she would need. I'm not giving up on her and I will do whatever I can to help save her--I'm continually putting her in God's hands where she is safest. I'm praying that our follow-up ultrasound will show that the teratoma has either shrunk or at least stabilized and will not continue to grow. Thank you for all thoughts and prayers!

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Re: Update on baby girl's neck mass (long)

  • Oh, gosh, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Lots of T&P for you. It sounds like there's plenty of hope out there! Very best wishes as you go forward and keep us posted.
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  • SO glad that you have some answers and hooked up with some parents who experienced the same thing. Praying for you and your DH and your little princess. Day by day is a great plan and God will take everything in his care. Thinking of you!
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  • T&P for you and your family.
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  • I'm praying for L/O, DH, and you. I'm sorry you are going through this. Keep your faith in God. It's great news that this is operable and I'm so glad you found the other families that have been through this before and hopefully you will get the answers you need for them.
  • Things sound promising. I'm glad you are researching. Don't take no for an answer and be you and you LO's advocate!
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  • You're in my prayers!
  • I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. My thoughts will be with your family and your little girl.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this horrible ordeal. I will definitely be keeping you in my T&P!
  • Thinking of you and your family and hoping hard for a good outcome.
  • I'm so sorry you have these worries! I hope you get nothing but good news from now on. Thoughts and prayers are headed your way.
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  • I'm glad you are finding encouraging things. You will continue to be in my T&P!
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  • My thoughts and prayers are with you and your little one.
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  • Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry you're going through this but that's heartening news and I will keep you all in my T&P.
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  • Lots of prayers to you. 
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  • I will keep your LO and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Hold on to hope and stay positive, your lo needs you to stay positive!! ((hugs))
  • I'm so glad you've found these success stories - what a great source of hope.  :)

     

    Always remember that God DOES perform micacles every day, and while there are no guarantees, there's always hope!  My prayers will be with you, your husband and your little girl.  

     

    Keep us posted!

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  • I will praying for you, your husband, and baby girl.  Stay strong.  You have a wonderful outlook.  I pray also that the amnio results come back good.  Big Hugs. 
  • I'm sorry you and your husband are going through this, but it sounds like there is hope.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • I am glad this has given you a ray of hope.  Keep on trusting in God and know you have lots of T&Ps from PgAL!
  • Praying for your little girl. I am so glad you found families to connect with. I'm praying for your own success story.
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this but so glad that you've found success stories and were able to connect with those families. T&P to you and your LO.
  • I'm so glad there is hope for your LO and my T&P are with your family.
  • You, your DH and LO will be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope it is all good news for you from here on.
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