I get really stressed out, he has never been stressed in his life, and gets so mad at me for running around the house trying to get things done. It's really bad when my parents are coming. The fact that I also get really pissy probably doens't help either.
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I leave my hair on the shower wall. My hair is dark, and it falls out constantly while I'm showering, and can't stand the feeling of it between my fingers. So instead of waiting forever for it to fall off my fingers, I clump it on the wall and wait a couple hours til its dry and pull it off and throw it away.
I leave my hair on the shower wall. My hair is dark, and it falls out constantly while I'm showering, and can't stand the feeling of it between my fingers. So instead of waiting forever for it to fall off my fingers, I clump it on the wall and wait a couple hours til its dry and pull it off and throw it away.
oh that's another gripe. i hate using the hair catcher thing in the tub because then the bottom of the tub fills up - so I don't use it. then the drain gets clogged and he has to fish all the hair out of the pipe... ha ha. i'm evil.
I crack my back and he HATES it. It grosses him out.
He also doesn't like that I stress out over EVERYTHING. I am just uptight and don't know how to not be stressed, lol.
His nickname for me is Boo-Hoo Jr. because I cry over the silliest things (commercials, tv shows, songs, stories... ). My mom gets the distinction of being Boo-Hoo Sr. lol.
Sleeping instead of having sex. Sorry pal, your kids wear me out and you're not exacting racking up brownie points by continuing to ignore that my car *needs* to be fixed. Take care of that and maybe I'll be less tired.
This is going to sound depressing - but I am not sure if there is anything he LIKES about me anymore.
Sadly, I feel pretty close to the same about him. Three pregnancies has taken a real toll on us in the intimacy and even the friendship department. I am thinking that things will get better once I can back to my old self.
This is going to sound depressing - but I am not sure if there is anything he LIKES about me anymore.?
Sadly, I feel pretty close to the same about him.? Three pregnancies has taken a real toll on us in the intimacy and even the friendship department.? I am thinking that things will get better once I can back to my old self.?
Having three kids in a short amount of time would also damper our relationship simply because it would be stressful for us. Even though I haven't been there, I can understand what you are trying to say. I am really sorry, and I am sure things will get better. ?
OMG, punk, my DH is the same way! just b/c it's the weekend doesn't mean we don't have stuff to do!
he also hates that i'm so anal about organization. if there's a magazine on the end table that hasn't been looked at in a week, it goes to recycling stat!
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This is going to sound depressing - but I am not sure if there is anything he LIKES about me anymore.
Sadly, I feel pretty close to the same about him. Three pregnancies has taken a real toll on us in the intimacy and even the friendship department. I am thinking that things will get better once I can back to my old self.
You aren't alone and I always get told it's my fault. Oh, and apparently I clean too much. My OCD drives him crazy because he is sloppy with everything around the house.
He hates it when I leave crusty casserole dishes in the sink to "soak" and they end up sitting there for a couple of days.
I've gotten much better about it since we first got married, but there are still times when he just sighs and scrubs them out himself. And then I feel crazy guilty. :P
Also, I tend to organize by a "pile" system and it drives him nuts. He's far more organized and neat than I am.
Re: What's something you do that your DH dislikes?
i type too loudly apparently. I get griped at at least 2-3x a day for 'clacking away and typing a book.'
oh and i'm a clutterer. i have more stuff than house.
Breleigh & Mason
I tend to bite my lips/pick at them when I'm stressed. I don't even realize I'm doing it most of the time. It drives DH crazy.
oh that's another gripe. i hate using the hair catcher thing in the tub because then the bottom of the tub fills up - so I don't use it. then the drain gets clogged and he has to fish all the hair out of the pipe... ha ha. i'm evil.
I crack my back and he HATES it. It grosses him out.
He also doesn't like that I stress out over EVERYTHING. I am just uptight and don't know how to not be stressed, lol.
His nickname for me is Boo-Hoo Jr. because I cry over the silliest things (commercials, tv shows, songs, stories... ). My mom gets the distinction of being Boo-Hoo Sr. lol.
LukeandAmanda - I do the EXACT THING. He haaaates it!!!
I also pick the skin on the side of my thumbnail when I am stressed/trying to zone out... he hates that with a passion.
Any type of clutter or un-tidyness
Spaghetti
When I don't agree with everything he says!
DD#1~8/17/96------DS~10/24/05
This is going to sound depressing - but I am not sure if there is anything he LIKES about me anymore.
Sadly, I feel pretty close to the same about him. Three pregnancies has taken a real toll on us in the intimacy and even the friendship department. I am thinking that things will get better once I can back to my old self.
Note to Self: If RR comes here, don't be late getting ready!
Breleigh & Mason
Having three kids in a short amount of time would also damper our relationship simply because it would be stressful for us. Even though I haven't been there, I can understand what you are trying to say. I am really sorry, and I am sure things will get better. ?
Oh, this too. Then quit trying to hold hands with the car next to/in front of us and I'll shut up! The man has no clue about personal space, lol.
DD#1~8/17/96------DS~10/24/05
OMG, punk, my DH is the same way! just b/c it's the weekend doesn't mean we don't have stuff to do!
he also hates that i'm so anal about organization. if there's a magazine on the end table that hasn't been looked at in a week, it goes to recycling stat!
You aren't alone and I always get told it's my fault. Oh, and apparently I clean too much. My OCD drives him crazy because he is sloppy with everything around the house.
He hates it when I leave crusty casserole dishes in the sink to "soak" and they end up sitting there for a couple of days.
I've gotten much better about it since we first got married, but there are still times when he just sighs and scrubs them out himself. And then I feel crazy guilty. :P
Also, I tend to organize by a "pile" system and it drives him nuts. He's far more organized and neat than I am.
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010