So sick of my bf's family. VENT

Okay, so I've had issues with my bf's immediate family since I met them.  His mom was the only one that i ever really got along with (she kind of acted as my buffer against the rest of the family) but she passed away a little over a year ago.  Most of my issue with a lot of them is how they treat my bf...he's like the 'cinderella' of the family (everyone expects him to do everything, take care of everyone else, but god forbid he get/do anything for himself).  We both have come to expect it from everyone here, but something happened today that really pisses me off.

His biological father tried to add him on FB, which is weird enough, but he started blowing up and throwing a fit about how my bf didn't call him to let him know I was pregnant or that we had the baby..which normally, I could understand, but my bf has only seen/talked to his biological father once in the past 6 years and that was at his mother's funeral.  His dad walked out on him and his mother when he was really young and eventhough his mother tried to keep in touch when he was younger, he still considers his step father his actual 'dad'.  (His step father adopted him, raised him, etc and we've kept in close contact with him, so we called him when we found out I was pregnant, and when we had DD, and we talk to him regularly.  Honestly, eventhough he's my bf's sister's bio-dad and lives in FL, I think he's my favorite person out of my bf's family, even if he's not "really" related.)

Anyway, it just really irks me that his bio-father would bring that sh't up.  He just added him and you'd think he's ask how things are going or something, rather than just jumping into a fit about how we didnt go out of our way to tell him this stuff.

Grrrr.  I cant even think straight right now.

Oo and i'm irritated by the fact that some of his distant family and family friends have tried to guilt trip us about not naming DD after his mother...We had considered it (before we found out I was pg we talked about having kids once in awhile), but his uncle had a baby right after we found out and used my bf's mother's name as his daughter's middle name...

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/vent