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Beta came back negative :(

QE2QE2 member
in TTC after 35
I'm so heartbroken right now. Sometimes I wonder if I should just give up before this ruins me. I'll heal for a few days and then have the WTF talk with my RE. Boo IF!
TTC since 3/08 DOR, High FSH, Hypothyroid, Uterine Polyps, blocked tube, MFI, 5 rounds of clomid, 5 IVF attempts, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 natural conceptions=2 losses (Methotrexate, D&C) Successful DE cycle twins born 10/7/11 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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Re: Beta came back negative :(

  • fauxshelleyfauxshelley member
    I am so sorry.  Sad
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  • BirdieBrdBirdieBrd
    I'm sorry.  Sad
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  • smb1974smb1974
    I am so very sorry...sending you very big hugs!
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  • MAH123MAH123
    Oh, I am so sorry and this is so unfair....wish I could say something to make this better, but it just sucks. Take care of yourself and hang in there.
    1 ectopic 3 m/c's prior to 5/05 Un-freaking-explained IF 5/05 IVF, BFN 9/05 FET 3d5e, BFP = Beautiful Baby Girl (lucky pg #5) 8/08 Fet 3d5e, cp 12/08 IVF with PGD, transfer 3, BFN 5/09 FET transfer 4, BFN Hail Mary IUI with Follistim 9/11 BFP; 9/22 confirmed tubal/MTX 4/10 FET 3d5e, BFP!!!! m/c 5/26/10 1 year break and yet another m/c 5/11 FET #5 initial beat 121, second beta 7 Lap and removal of L tube and very mild endo 7/11 Suprise BFP 12/11 & m/c @ 8 wks. After 11 losses and one beautiful miracle our journey is over, we are thankful and at peace.
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  • floridakatfloridakat
    Oh no, I'm so sorry. I hope you take the time you need and get some answers from your doctor.
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  • ougrad1ougrad1 member
    No!!!!  I hate this.  There's no way around it.  It sucks.  I'm sorry QE2.  : (
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  • redsoxbonoredsoxbono
    I'm so sorry. 
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  • kb75kb75
    I am so very sorry. ((hugs))
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  • NantucketSunsetNantucketSunset member
    I'm so sorry QE2. Give yourself some time to deal with the loss, but don't give up. Sometimes it is just about perseverence. ((((hugs))))

    Blocked tubes due to ruptured appendix
    IVF#1 Ectopic - tube removed; FET#1 CP; IVF#2 BFP!
    Beta#1 13dpo 115; Beta#2 15dpo 248; Beta #3 20dpo 2215 U/S#1 6w1d HR 99; U/S#2 8w HR 165; U/S#3 10w HR 176 and moving all around!
    Bedrest at 28 weeks due to preterm labor; released to modified bedrest at 34 weeks; released to full activity at 37 weeks
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  • stacia1633stacia1633
    I'm sorry.
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  • GymDogFranGymDogFran
    I am so so sorry!  You will be in my thoughts.
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  • NowDNAtooNowDNAtoo
    I'm sorry to hear this.  I hope your RE has some good ideas for you!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker TTC #1 Cycle #18 m/c Jan. 9, 2007, chemical pg May 4, 2007, methotrexate shot Oct. 5, 2007--m/c Oct. 9, 2007, IUI Nov. 17, 2007 It worked! beta 11/30 & 12/6 TTC #2 Cycle #5 IUI July 20, 2009 -BFN 8-3-09 Cycle #6 IUI August 17, 2009-BFP! 8-31-09, beta 9-1-09, 9-8-09, saw the H/B 9-22-09 EDD 5-10-10
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  • ChaynBillChaynBill
    I'm so sorry.
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  • can'tfindausernamecan'tfindausername
    I am so so so sorry. IF sucks big time. I am heartbroken for both of us. But we have to stay positive. I have my WTF appointment next week. Ugggg. Af is still here and beta on Thursday. And I still have to keep using those progesterone suppositories.. Gross. I am here for you. Sending you big hugs.
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  • cfreshygcfreshyg

    I'm sorry QE2. It does suck.

    Is the bar open? A few of us need to belly up to the bar...

    Hang in there.

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  • LisaMarie95LisaMarie95
    I am so sorry.  I was really hoping for the best for you!  We can't let IF get the best of us!
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  • sadie sadiesadie sadie
    I am so very sorry. Left Hug
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  • shyntrueshyntrue
    I'm so sorry QE2!  {{{{{Hugs}}}}}
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  • CharBartCharBart

    I'm so sorry Q....IF really does suck!  I'm keeping you in my thoughts.

    big (((hugs))) 

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  • FrannySFrannyS
    Oh QE, I am so sorry. Sucks big time.  Left Hug Hugs...
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  • DinaLINYDinaLINY
    so unfair!! I am really sorry Sad
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  • leslieb923leslieb923
    That just stinks....I'm sorry to hear this.  ((Hugs))
    Married 5/12/07 Took 3 IUIs and 2 IVFs for our sweet boy He was worth the wait! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • iluvtomiluvtom member
    I am truly so sorry
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  • LizzyB11LizzyB11
    I'm so sorry to hear that! It truly does suck. I think we're often at our lowest of lows when AF shows her ugly face or we see an BFN. It tears me up every month, too. I wish none of us had to go through these kinds of ordeals in order to become parents. ::hugs::
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  • MrsPLW71MrsPLW71
    So sorry Left HugRight Hug
    Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment

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  • StrunellaStrunella member
    Oh, no!  I was just coming on to look for your post.  I am so sad for you.  This is such an emotional and physical roller coaster.  We do everything we're supposed to....WHY doesn't it work??  I just don't understand.  Sending you lots of hugs...wish I could make it better. 
     
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  • taratrutaratru member
    Ugh.  So sorry, QE.
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  • IrishsapphireIrishsapphire member
    I am really sorry.  I wish this was easier for all of us. 
    imageimageLilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Premature Baby tickers Lilypie Premature Baby tickers image BFP on 07/18/08. Miscarriage 07/30/08. BFP 3/25/09. Confirmed second miscarriage, no heartbeat, no growth beyond 7 weeks, 5/19/09. TTC again, on baby aspirin, due to value of 23 on Anticardiolipin Antibodies. BFP 11/15/09. Brown spotting, Beta 3735 11/25/09, Beta 5602 11/28/09. Anticardiolipin Antibodies now negative, still on baby asprin. On 100 mg of Prometrium (progesterone) until 10 weeks. Good heartbeat at 1st appt. 12/16/09. Started taking fish oil. Perigestational hemorrhage and red bleeding 12/17/09. 2nd Ultrasound-8 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/17/09. Baby measured 9 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/23/09. Good NT Scan on 1/8/10, heartbeat 164. EDD 7/28/10. TEAM BLUE! Aidan Thomas born on May 26, 2010. Baby #2, BFP 11/27/11, EDD 6/5/12. TEAM PINK! Noelle Elizabeth born 4/30/12. Blessing from God, Blessing from God, Blessing from God, Blessing from God.
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  • Amy&Steve0421Amy&Steve0421 member

    I'm so sorry.

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  • mscandymanmscandyman member
    Oh QE2, I am so sorry. 
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  • momagain2009momagain2009 member
    I'm so sorry, it's just not fair.  I wish everything wasn't such a gamble.  You would think by now science would have figured out a way to make it 100% effective.
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  • BrideforKenBrideforKen
    I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I'm not sure why these things happen. It's just so unfair.
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  • panda246panda246

    Oh crap...IF truly svcks!

    Hope the WTF appt. gives you some answers and ideas.

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  • MDBeachbrideMDBeachbride member
    Angry  sorry girlfriend. 
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  • JillAlyJillAly member
    QE2-  I am so sorry.  It is so unfair and it just sucks.  I wish I could say something to make this better.  You have a lot of friends here and vent any time you need to!
    3 IUI's and 2 IVF's later- Brady arrived. Born at 36 weeks after PUPPS and pre-e/HELLP.
    IUI- BFN IVF #1 -BFP! Allie is our 2nd IVF baby. Born at 36 1/2 weeks after pre-e again
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