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I can't be sure. But it's killing me.

thequeeenbeethequeeenbee member
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Please don't flame, I know I may sound stupid, but here's what is going on.

I've had regular periods since the first month after DS was born. They have been perfectly on time, and lasted exactly 5 days. Lately I've been feeling a little bit strange, having all of the the signs of pregnancy. I posted a few weeks back about POAS. It was a BFN. I thought that maybe for a second the 2nd line looked like it was going to come through. But never really did. I figured I would just take another one in a few weeks if I didn't get an AF. I ended up getting one, but it was light.

Well, it's been 1.5 weeks since then. Last night I started with some spotting, that quickly turned into a heavy bleeding, heavier than any period I've ever had in my life, with lots and lots of small bits of clotting. And sereve adominal cramps. Much worse than normal.

I can't help but feel like I'm having an early m/c. I never got a "sure" BFP, but I thought I was pg. And this... just doesn't feel right. I feel so stupid for getting torn up over something I don't know for sure, but I just keep crying over it.

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  • chucknorris11chucknorris11 member
    :( I am sorry. Are you going to go to the doc?
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  • thequeeenbeethequeeenbee member

    imageahartzle:
    :( I am sorry. Are you going to go to the doc?

    I don't know. I feel so stupid. What do I do, call them and say, I was never positive that I was pg, but I think I'm having a m/c? Sad

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  • josswhedonjosswhedon member
    It could also just be your body adjusting after just having had a baby. My first TOM post baby was just last week and it was WICKED.
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  • July_2009July_2009
    If you think you are/were pregnant it is a prudent thing to go for a check up. If indeed it turns out to be a m/c then you would better off knowing it.
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  • ivs112ivs112 member

    (((hugs)))

    I agree with Ahartz about calling your Dr.

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  • BengalBelleBengalBelle member
    imagethequeeenbee:

    imageahartzle:
    :( I am sorry. Are you going to go to the doc?

    I don't know. I feel so stupid. What do I do, call them and say, I was never positive that I was pg, but I think I'm having a m/c? Smile

    I think that's exactly what you should tell them.  It doesn't sound stupid at all.  And it would give you answers - if it is a m/c, you know; if it wasn't and is just weird AF, wouldn't that make you feel better?   

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  • thequeeenbeethequeeenbee member
    imageBengalBelle:
    imagethequeeenbee:

    imageahartzle:
    :( I am sorry. Are you going to go to the doc?

    I don't know. I feel so stupid. What do I do, call them and say, I was never positive that I was pg, but I think I'm having a m/c? Smile

    I think that's exactly what you should tell them.  It doesn't sound stupid at all.  And it would give you answers - if it is a m/c, you know; if it wasn't and is just weird AF, wouldn't that make you feel better?   

    ETA: That was supposed to be a sad face, not a happy face. =/

    I guess that's probally what I'll do then. Thanks ladies.

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  • BengalBelleBengalBelle member
    I didn't read it as a happy face.  I'm crossing my fingers that the doctor tells you your period is totally wacky. Sad
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