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travers081906 · December 2009

come on.............................................( open ) Bahhhhhhh...

REALLY???!!!!

Scout05 · December 2009

Nope, I know her, if that is what you are talking about.

bebeblues · December 2009

What?

What'd I miss??

I was posting to my girl Sarah......

lax15bsu · December 2009

Now see, I said something at first, but then edited because everyone else was being nice and happy for her. This is why I rarely get in on the goat sightings.

Tapsalteerie · December 2009

lol. You are always the faithful and keen-eyed herder.

travers081906 · December 2009

once a month!!!???

Really??!!! and once in the last couple months here...

CarrieLeigh84 · December 2009

Fear not! I'm trying to be nice about it... but I still hear the baaaaaaaaah baaaaaahhhh

Scout05 · December 2009

I know, but the post history doesn't show the rate of responses. She has responded to many posts, just not in the last few weeks.

I think we're a little quick to call out goats these days. JMHO. There is a difference between one post EVER and someone who has participated and just hasn't been on a ton lately. Again, that is just my opinion.

travers081906 · December 2009

CarrieLeigh84:
Fear not! I'm trying to be nice about it... but I still hear the baaaaaaaaah baaaaaahhhh

I am feeling ya!!!!

jennsadye1979 · December 2009

For lunch perhaps?

bebeblues · December 2009

No, I had seen her posts b4. I don't think she posted a lot, but she was here more than most bfps have been.

cintim · December 2009

ambrandau2:
Nope, I know her, if that is what you are talking about.

Me too. She's not the most active poster but she's been around enough for me to recognize her.

CarrieLeigh84 · December 2009

ambrandau2:
I know, but the post history doesn't show the rate of responses. She has responded to many posts, just not in the last few weeks.

I think we're a little quick to call out goats these days. JMHO. There is a difference between one post EVER and someone who has participated and just hasn't been on a ton lately. Again, that is just my opinion.

Maybe... I guess it's a gray area. It just feels like all these people who've posted a handful of times don't have time for us normally.. but when there's a BFP, they make time to post it.

Scout05 · December 2009

I am all for calling out goats, you know that. But I don't really personally mind if the person is someone I recognize, even if they haven't been on lately.

It just doesn't rankle me as much as it does when the person has ONE post or something.

Not that I think they should be hanging out here once the BFP has happened, if they were never regular posters to begin with, but I am not as motivated to flame them. Again, just how I personally feel about it.

BecomingaSmith · December 2009

I am not a 'goat'. Not everyone posts all the time and everyday. I'm sorry that you have been offended by lame people who have nothing better to do than cause pain.

I am not one of those, and I am actually amazed how some can be so cruel. It's one thing not to like what I say. but really? Are we five?

I post when I have something to say, and I just read other times...

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Temp950106187509203 · December 2009

BecomingaSmith:
My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Whoa up. It does suck that some people didn't recognize you and jumped on you for being a goat. HOWEVER, no one said anything about your loss being less real or anything of the sort. It's unfair of you to accuse them of such.

Scout05 · December 2009

BecomingaSmith:

I am not a 'goat'. Not everyone posts all the time and everyday. I'm sorry that you have been offended by lame people who have nothing better to do than cause pain.

I am not one of those, and I am actually amazed how some can be so cruel. It's one thing not to like what I say. but really? Are we five?

I post when I have something to say, and I just read other times...

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Yeah....this is going to ruin the argument I was making on your behalf. You have to give to get, here, so just reading doesn't really make you a part of the community.

And for the record - I am 12. Not cruel, but totally amused by fart jokes.

I guess I am recinding my defense. Should have known better.

CarrieLeigh84 · December 2009

ambrandau2:
BecomingaSmith:

I am not a 'goat'. Not everyone posts all the time and everyday. I'm sorry that you have been offended by lame people who have nothing better to do than cause pain.

I am not one of those, and I am actually amazed how some can be so cruel. It's one thing not to like what I say. but really? Are we five?

I post when I have something to say, and I just read other times...

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Yeah....this is going to ruin the argument I was making on your behalf. You have to give to get, here, so just reading doesn't really make you a part of the community.

And for the record - I am 12. Not cruel, but totally amused by fart jokes.

I guess I am recinding my defense. Should have known better.

That was totally your good deed for the day as well.

BFP Goat - No one was saying a word about how your loss is any different to any of ours. I'm pretty sure I just pointed out that TTCAL is a give/take board.. not so much just a 'give a couple of times, then BLAM! bfp'

And if you have been around a fair bit before.. sorry. But as ambrandau just pointed out, you shot yourself in the foot.

Booooohisssss

suntoto@gmail.com · December 2009

BecomingaSmith:
I am not a 'goat'. Not everyone posts all the time and everyday. I'm sorry that you have been offended by lame people who have nothing better to do than cause pain.

I am not one of those, and I am actually amazed how some can be so cruel. It's one thing not to like what I say. but really? Are we five?

I post when I have something to say, and I just read other times...

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

1. Your post record does not indicate you have been on all that much. It is a give and get relationship on here, not a take take take relationship.

2. Why is it so hard to read and comprehend, NO ONE on here is not sorry about your loss and no one has diminished your suffering b/c of it, but this post has just made you a goat b/c obviously you can't see that...

travers081906 · December 2009

ambrandau2:
BecomingaSmith:

I am not a 'goat'. Not everyone posts all the time and everyday. I'm sorry that you have been offended by lame people who have nothing better to do than cause pain.

I am not one of those, and I am actually amazed how some can be so cruel. It's one thing not to like what I say. but really? Are we five?

I post when I have something to say, and I just read other times...

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Yeah....this is going to ruin the argument I was making on your behalf. You have to give to get, here, so just reading doesn't really make you a part of the community.

And for the record - I am 12. Not cruel, but totally amused by fart jokes.

I guess I am recinding my defense. Should have known better.

It's ok I forgive you!

ShellShockedMama · December 2009

cintim:

ambrandau2:
Nope, I know her, if that is what you are talking about.

Me too. She's not the most active poster but she's been around enough for me to recognize her.

really, Im on ALL the time and have never seen her.

Oh well. I just don't say anything in times like that, does that make me a _bitch? Probably, but hell. Say something if you want me to care about you.

BecomingaSmith · December 2009

travers081906:
ambrandau2:
BecomingaSmith:

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Yeah....this is going to ruin the argument I was making on your behalf. You have to give to get, here, so just reading doesn't really make you a part of the community.

And for the record - I am 12. Not cruel, but totally amused by fart jokes.

I guess I am recinding my defense. Should have known better.

What I was trying to make clear is that I did not make up any of this as it was mentioned in a previous post today about someone else who faked losses.

And this would be a good example of why I don't post more often. Words get lost in translation and then it turns into a big mess.

It has been a while since I have been around, but I was more active about a month ago. Life got busy, so I haven't been around...This morning, I came here, because I am too scared to accept the reality of it all yet, and I knew there are others here who have been where I am now - and then I get accused of being a goat. It just sucks, that's all...

andrea z · December 2009

BecomingaSmith:
travers081906:
ambrandau2:
BecomingaSmith:

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Yeah....this is going to ruin the argument I was making on your behalf. You have to give to get, here, so just reading doesn't really make you a part of the community.

And for the record - I am 12. Not cruel, but totally amused by fart jokes.

I guess I am recinding my defense. Should have known better.

What I was trying to make clear is that I did not make up any of this as it was mentioned in a previous post today about someone else who faked losses.

And this would be a good example of why I don't post more often. Words get lost in translation and then it turns into a big mess.

It has been a while since I have been around, but I was more active about a month ago. Life got busy, so I haven't been around...This morning, I came here, because I am too scared to accept the reality of it all yet, and I knew there are others here who have been where I am now - and then I get accused of being a goat. It just sucks, that's all...

Hmm so you havent been here in a long time.... and this is TTCAL. You obviously don't come to check on the other ladies on this board, so you don't have any BFFs here to tell. You got a positive PREGNANCY test... and you thought it would be best to post on TTCAL instead of Pregnant after a loss. Just trying to understand your thinking.

travers081906 · December 2009

BecomingaSmith:
travers081906:
ambrandau2:
BecomingaSmith:

My loss is just as real to me as yours is to you.

Yeah....this is going to ruin the argument I was making on your behalf. You have to give to get, here, so just reading doesn't really make you a part of the community.

And for the record - I am 12. Not cruel, but totally amused by fart jokes.

I guess I am recinding my defense. Should have known better.

What I was trying to make clear is that I did not make up any of this as it was mentioned in a previous post today about someone else who faked losses.
What would make you think that we thought you faked it????

And this would be a good example of why I don't post more often. Words get lost in translation and then it turns into a big mess. What huh??? We never get lost in translation with each others words...
Oh wait that is because we all know each other well enough and know what the other is really thinking!!!

It has been a while since I have been around, but I was more active about a month ago. Life got busy, so I haven't been around...This morning, I came here, because I am too scared to accept the reality of it all yet, and I knew there are others here who have been where I am now - and then I get accused of being a goat. It just sucks, that's all...
Life gets busy for all of us... what do you not think that we also have a life???!!!!! A nice hey remember me...blah, blah, blah..... When ladies come on here out of the blue and say that have a BFP it kinda kicks us in the ute... You dont give support, so you don't get support!!! And then when you go and twist one of our words around... Oh ur just asking for it... Oh and we are not five... you can't get KTFU when your five!!!!!!!!!! It just sucks...that's all.......

My thoughts in BOLD above...

andrea z · December 2009

Also... many of us can not give you support about being pregnant after a loss, because we have never been pregnant after a loss (since we are still in the TTCAL board).... but I bet EVERYONE at pregnant after a loss can.

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