I need to explain.. and that would be customers. I work at sbux and i truly am ready to loose it on some!
It's WI, cold here and I was standing in the window in drive through while the ladies receiving their drinks sat in their car with the windows up oblivious to me! They were like "oh sorry we've got a baby in the car"... FIRST OF ALL : PAY ATTENTION, SECOND: I HAVE A BABY IN HERE... if only I could speak my mind.
I can't stand it when our patients ask me pregnancy related questions. They don't need to act like they care and it's none of their business. It also irritates me with random strangers, but mostly at work. And the most dreaded question, "Do you know what it is?" or "Do you know what your having? " Yea heffers, I'm having a baby!!!! Stop being so freaking nosey!!!!!
With our first LO, he threw temper tantrum after temper tantrum when I was in the hospital giving birth to her because it wasn't all about him and he didn't feel like I was including him....ummm hellooooo, they aren't going to wait on you to finish getting food to examine my dilation and no they don't allow people in when they are doing epidurals and yes I am the only one going through all the pain and I have a right to vent. My favorite was when we were still in the hospital and I ended up with a c-section. LO was in the room and she started crying and he said he was too tired to get up...HAHAHA....@&&...
So, now with this LO, he is starting early and throwing little temper tantrums about everything I keep doing "wrong" and things I need to take "responsibility" for.... ummmm, shutup and I can't wait until this baby is here and the temper tantrums go away. It seems that we are just not good together in stressful situations....
Everyone I work with is irritating the crap out of me right now! 11 more days and I don't have to see or talk to any of them ever again! Woo hoo! (I also thought it was going to be a list of posters! LOL!)
DH is stressing himself out with projects...but projects I don't see as priority. My priority: nursery. His: finish the basement family room. I wouldn't care, but his stress is making him moody and today he snapped at me. That didn't go over well!
I needed to explain.... unsolicited advice from anyone. Especially people who already had kids and think they know it all. Not saying they don't, not saying they do but it's just annoying.
mil---you are *not* my best friend...in fact, you suck. i realize that you are super excited about your son's first child, but for 5 years i've been treated like a second class citizen, with your daughter and her children always being first. i'm happy to foster a relationship between my dd and you, but i already have a mom, THANKS.
I really love her to the end of the world, but its my Grandma. This is my second time around and she was just as involved in my first pregnancy, but she asks the same questions every day. She is surprised that I can drive. She keeps forgetting that I had an emergency c/s last time so, she keeps asking me why I have to have one this time around. Every time I buy something for the baby, she tells me to be careful and not spend all my money. When I told her we bought a crib, she was upset and was worried she wouldn't be able to get anything for the baby. When I told her she could get us the travel system, she said "well you aren't going to use that right away, so why should you get that?"
She is 83, and I keep having to remind myself of this. Her memory is not as it used to be, but OMG write something down. I love her and her silly forgetful ways though, but she is definately the most annoying to me right now.
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I need to explain.. and that would be customers. I work at sbux and i truly am ready to loose it on some!
It's WI, cold here and I was standing in the window in drive through while the ladies receiving their drinks sat in their car with the windows up oblivious to me! They were like "oh sorry we've got a baby in the car"... FIRST OF ALL : PAY ATTENTION, SECOND: I HAVE A BABY IN HERE... if only I could speak my mind.
Sorry rant over!
DH hands down!
With our first LO, he threw temper tantrum after temper tantrum when I was in the hospital giving birth to her because it wasn't all about him and he didn't feel like I was including him....ummm hellooooo, they aren't going to wait on you to finish getting food to examine my dilation and no they don't allow people in when they are doing epidurals and yes I am the only one going through all the pain and I have a right to vent. My favorite was when we were still in the hospital and I ended up with a c-section. LO was in the room and she started crying and he said he was too tired to get up...HAHAHA....@&&...
So, now with this LO, he is starting early and throwing little temper tantrums about everything I keep doing "wrong" and things I need to take "responsibility" for.... ummmm, shutup and I can't wait until this baby is here and the temper tantrums go away. It seems that we are just not good together in stressful situations....
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I really love her to the end of the world, but its my Grandma. This is my second time around and she was just as involved in my first pregnancy, but she asks the same questions every day. She is surprised that I can drive. She keeps forgetting that I had an emergency c/s last time so, she keeps asking me why I have to have one this time around. Every time I buy something for the baby, she tells me to be careful and not spend all my money. When I told her we bought a crib, she was upset and was worried she wouldn't be able to get anything for the baby. When I told her she could get us the travel system, she said "well you aren't going to use that right away, so why should you get that?"
She is 83, and I keep having to remind myself of this. Her memory is not as it used to be, but OMG write something down. I love her and her silly forgetful ways though, but she is definately the most annoying to me right now.