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alright, what if it is a form of abuse, physical, emotional or sexual.

can that be overcome on your own?

Re: alright, what if it is a form of abuse, physical, emotional or sexual.

  • It could be, yes.

    I've come a very very long way in the past several years.

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  • I think emotional is different than physical and sexual.  "Emotional abuse" can be very subjective, except for extreme cases.

    If it inhibits your daily life, then you need help.  If not, then it should be up to the individual.

  • and listen, i am making an honest inquiry here, not trying to flame anyone geez
  • It all depends on how you view it as a patient.

    How many people are emotionally abused their entire lives and that is their normal. Yet they function just fine in the real world. Emotional abuse comes in MANY forms.

    Physical and sexual harm is a whole other ballgame when it comes to therapy.

    If you as a patient think it is a problem, then it is. If society in general (depending on your culture) thinks it is abnormal, it is. It is all very subjective.

  • Depends on what you mean by 'overcome.'  Do you mean able to function in society?  Then my answer would be yes.  If by 'overcome' you mean that one would completely forget the incident ever occurred...and never be influenced by that act ever again?  Then no. 

  • ok emotional is too varying in scope.   let's stick to physical/sexual
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    It all depends on how you view it as a patient.

    How many people are emotionally abused their entire lives and that is their normal. Yet they function just fine in the real world. Emotional abuse comes in MANY forms.

    Physical and sexual harm is a whole other ballgame when it comes to therapy.

    If you as a patient think it is a problem, then it is. If society in general (depending on your culture) thinks it is abnormal, it is. It is all very subjective.

    Get out of my head!

  • My mother beat the living hell out of me when I was a kid. I never saw a therapist about it and I'm totally fine now.

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  • MH was physically abused by his dad and has never sought treatment.  I do think he has been able to overcome the past and what happened to him.  I wish his whole damn family would go to therapy to acknowledge what happened, but I could guarantee you that's not going to happen. 
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    ok emotional is too varying in scope.   let's stick to physical/sexual

    I do think it can be overcome without therapy.  But like pp said, it depends on the individual, the circumstances, the individual's support system, and their beliefs.  By overcome, I'm not referring to it being forgotten or acting like it never happened but more so living a fulfilled, succesful life.

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  • I think it depends on how bad the abuse is. Once, maybe. Twice also maybe. A life time...no.
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  • Regardless of the type of abuse - if you have to ask the question "do I need therapy?", then you've already answered yourself.  Yes you do.
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  • I was sexually abused as a child and physically abused by my ex-H.  I didn't go to therapy for either and I think I have pretty much overcome any issues.
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