I do not need to hear

Re: I do not need to hear

• kel716 member

  November 2009

  Hang in there sweetie.  I m/c'd around 10 weeks with my first BFP, and nothing can be said to replace that ache in your heart. The best thing I did was take some time for myself and spent a lot of quality time with dh.  Sending you a big hug. 

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• rottie06

  November 2009

  I can tell you I do not know how you are feeling or what you are going through. We are overdue for our first baby girl.  Being p/g changes everything and every perspective. Anyone that has the miracle of a baby moving inside them should know that!  I do believe in miracles and things happening for a reason however that would not be able to console me if I was in your shoes. Just the emotional side of trying so hard to get p/g, then the joys of being p/g, then complete and total loss.  I pray for you and your DH.  Very rough time for you. 

  

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• AnnieG123

  November 2009

  I hated hearing that too. I guess I really didn't know how much until people were saying it to me. You are right, there is really no good reason to lose a child.

  I'm sorry for your loss. My T&P are with you.

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• curlypie1

  November 2009

  Although I'm sure she was trying to be helpful, you're right. I'm sure that's the last thing you need to hear. Big hug to you. I hope you're feeling okay.

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• Klmorgan83 member

  November 2009

  Yeah I know she was just trying to be thoughtful and I'm sure had no idea how words like that can just sting.  I'm doing okay, a lot more sore today but I'm relaxing on the couch and watching movies.  But DH broke one of our couches, it just doesn't end I guess! 

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• 424bride

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I had a M/C and an ectopic, so I can say that I do know how you feel.  Just try to remember that people simply do not know what to say, so they end up saying something stupid or that makes you feel worse.  I just tried to keep that in mind and not let yet another thing bother me as I went through those very difficult times.  Hugs to you.

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• MrsMoher member

  November 2009

  It makes you want to rage and cry at the same time.  And that seems to be what everyone says.. that and my other personal favorite, well something was wrong with the baby, so it is best this way.  I hate hearing that.  Especially from people who are pg or have just had a baby.  Again I am so sorry you have to deal with this!

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