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The signs say no, but I swear I must be pg

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I look at my FF chart and the temps are all messed up, but the start of my luteal phase was so promising.  Maybe I could blame it on a messed up thermometer?  I've been cheating a little w/ my temp taking as the first temp has often come out as VERY low, so I use the second.  I know this isn't right, but AF hasn't showed yet...

So I have also POAS twice.  Both negatives.  And once was yesterday at 13dpo.  BFN.  

But - I'm really pooped.  And I have had a bloody nose twice.  And I'm an emotional wreck.

The pooped and bloody nose can be explained by a cold that won't go away. Although I think I've only had two bloody noses in the last few years - once now and once the last time I was pg.  And I have read you can get more nosebleeds when pg

And the emotional wreck could just be the holidays.

So here's hoping, although it is dwindling. 

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Re: The signs say no, but I swear I must be pg

  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    I shall cross my fingers that you are ktfu. I have a similar debate myself, except in reverse. My symptoms = af but chart does not.
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  • BAM_2780BAM_2780

    Your chart looks great!  *crosses fingers.

    I just went to the bathroom and saw a few blood spots.  I think I can say I'm out this month.

    We're having thanksgiving part 2 today, so at least I get to drink - some consolation prize though. 

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  • erpetdocerpetdoc
    Crossing my fingers & toes for you that you're KTFU!
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  • jumagirljumagirl
    Ugh, sorry about the spotting and the BFNs.  
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  • lindsay.loulindsay.lou member
    The BFP that I got on 12DPO was veeeeeery light. The next day (13DPO) is was still light. You're still early in the testing game.
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  • Texas77againTexas77again member

    disclaimer: ok, i mean this in the nicest way possible...lol. 

    there is no reason to cheat on your temps.  all you are doing is lying to yourself and getting hopes up for no reason.  it's not like you can trick your body into a bfp by putting "good" temps into FF. 

    also your temps look quite normal to me (see your last post below).  they started to go down a few days ago and now you are spotting.  sorry girl, but after almost a year and a half of charting i have done it all- cheating on temps...etc and i've just learned it doesn't help and just leads to more confusion.  it is what it is. 

    sorry for the bfn's and spotting.  GL next cycle!

     

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  • BAM_2780BAM_2780

    I know, I know  - lying is no good!

    But....

    The biggest reason for cheating on my temps has been the two times where the thermometer is still cold in my mouth.  I just know the readings can't be accurate.  If the thermometer felt mouth-temperature, as normal, I def would believe it.  But because it doesn't, I am still hopeful.  The readings I have had over the last few days were far below the coverline (high 96's) which is so low and would indicate AF.  But no AF....yet.  just two spots.  So Im still going to be hopeful - just for today. 

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