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AmusjhAmusjh member
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So, my DR told me that we could start having sex 2 weeks after the D&C, but we had to use protection to prevent pregnacy for 1 month.  So, today is the 2 week mark and I would really like to have sex...  But, DH won't use condoms.  He just said that he would be fine with a blow job until the month is over.  Seriously?  What about me????  It just annoys me so much that he is this selfish.  Ok, vent over!
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Re: DH vent

  • GinaincaliGinaincali member
    Yikes!  That really sucks!  We attempted to use condoms for awhile because I didn't want to go back on BC but I hated them, so we stopped and I went on Birth Control.  I know its not a guarantee but could you possibly use the pull out method? 
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  • swanckswanck

    Totally selfish. 

    I would remind him of that.  But I am a little wound up tonight. 

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  • californiastarscaliforniastars member
    Oh hell no. If he wants a blow job he had better be reciprocating and if not then he gets nothing unless condoms are used.
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  • daphne814daphne814 member

    Oh wow.  This would be my response:  "Well, if a blow job will do just fine, how about a hand job?  And you can go ahead and use your own hand!"

    A month of that and he'll be eating his words :) 


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  • lenabethlenabeth
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    Oh wow.  This would be my response:  "Well, if a blow job will do just fine, how about a hand job?  And you can go ahead and use your own hand!"

    A month of that and he'll be eating his words :) 

    Ditto that!

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I love how men don't get that we don't enjoy condoms either. But it's what we need to do right now, so deal with it.

    Boys are dumb. Our mothers were right.

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  • AmusjhAmusjh member
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    I love how men don't get that we don't enjoy condoms either. But it's what we need to do right now, so deal with it.

    Boys are dumb. Our mothers were right.

    LOL!  Thanks for the laugh!  I needed to hear that right now...

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