Joining the highly flamed " I'm ready for PP sex" club

Bonzer · November 2009

it hasn't even been 2 weeks, but I am ready to have sex.

I obviously will not, as I'm not cleared to do so by my dr, my sutures haven't dissolved and I'm still bleeding, but I am so ready.

Sex seems like the only thing that would retain a sense of "normal" around here and one of the few things that DH and I can do without talking about kids, babies, diapers, strollers, etc.

Amanda&PJ · November 2009

I WISH I were ready and I am 6 weeks PP (though couldn't get in to see my Dr. until next week). It is all DH can talk about... but I just have no desire to, still, not even to kiss him! It makes me sad

Jocelyn0415 · November 2009

It's been almost 3 weeks for me, and I'm ready. Of course, I won't until my doctor clears me, but I'm really craving me some non-pregnant sex. Alas, I have 3 more weeks.

I'm hoping it won't be too painful when the time comes. I didn't tear, so I don't have any stitches. I'm thinking I'll definitely need a couple glasses of wine though.

coldplaygrl829 · November 2009

Amanda&PJ:
I WISH I were ready and I am 6 weeks PP (though couldn't get in to see my Dr. until next week). It is all DH can talk about... but I just have no desire to, still, not even to kiss him! It makes me sad

Ditto, and I'm even further out than you - 11 weeks PP! I feel so sorry for my DH when he tries to get intimate with me. I'm not sure what it is - I'm just not in the mood...EVER. Hopefully, as time wears on, and I stop feeling so bad about my self image, our sex life will come back.

firsttogo · November 2009

I am ready, and even finishing bleeding. I just had a tear that will not seem to heal correctly! I was two weeks on Wed. With DS1, we went for it at 3 weeks!

hriesen4 · November 2009

I hear ya. We have a countdown on the calendar to my 6 week appt. I miss that intimacy with him. Spooning and cuddling is great, don't get me wrong. I just miss that connection.

sheremy · November 2009

I'm only 6 days pp and i'm already ready to have sex with DH. Sex in the 3rd trimester was way to awkward and uncomfortable and now that we have an outside baby it's like our flame has been re-ignited. I'm hoping that my bleeding will let up soon and that I will feel almost back to normal in the next couple weeks (i'm very sore from my c-section) so that we can enjoy some sexy time.

Tonya_G · November 2009

Right with you- I'm a week out and wanted to jump DH today. It stinks. By the time I'm allowed to have sex, all these hormones will be gone and I won't want it anymore.