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could this day/week get any worse....

lahornlahorn
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i find out i have a missed miscarriage on monday..have a d&c tuesday...older sister has emergency c-section tuesday evening.....find out today younger sister is pregnant....honestly what a shitty week could it get any worse....how can i be happy for anyone let alone be happy again myself.
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  • fit4ever1379fit4ever1379 member

    Im sorry, I feel the same way. This is my 2nd m/c and both of my brothers girlfriends are pg and sometimes it hurts seeing their cute bellys but we have to be strong! We have no choice. We can get thru this!!

    T&P for you.

    Dx Endometriosis & MTHFR (2) Mutations 1st IUI BFP!! Beta& Pro levels low taking Endometrin vaginal inserts & b/w every 2 days... 9/12/09 Spontaneous Miscarriage @ 5.5 weeks AF arrivied 10/11/09 (30 days after m/c) 2nd IUI 10/24/09 BFP!! 11/6/09 1st Beta 8, 2nd Beta 28 3rd beta 51, 4TH Beta 327! & 5th Beta 800 , 6th Beta 338 :(on Endometrin vaginal inserts 200 mg twice a day, 2nd M/C 11/25/09 Starting taking BA, 5mg Folic acid, b12 & b9 along with prenatal. Hopefully this will help! M/C 11/25/09 AF SHOWED 26 DAYS AFTER MC, 3RD IUI SCHEDULED FOR 1/4/10 GOD PLEASE GRANT ME MY WISH! 3RD IUI =BFN 4th IUI on 2/2/10 in the 2WW Please let this be it. Keeping fingers crossed. 2/16/10 = BFP! 1st Beta 146, 2nd Beta 510, 3rd Beta 1808 & Pro 35, 4th Beta 12,000 & Pro 28, 3/2/10 1st u/s poss 2 sacs 1 hb @ 117!!! yay! Praying this is our sticky baby! We love you Baby! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Temp950106187509203Temp950106187509203 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you're being faced with babies/pregnancies of your sisters'.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.

    It will get better eventually.  Take care of yourself.
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    It get's better, hun... you just have to give it time. I can remember in the begining I couldn't hear that... but, eventually, it hurt differently... I guess not as extreme.

    I think we can all understand how you feel. Pg women suck! until we are one.... then, they rock!  FWIW- I currently hate pg people!

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  • MSC03MSC03 member
    Wow, that is rough. I'm so sorry for your loss. xoxo
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  • MaryYVRMaryYVR member
    What a week!  I'm SO sorry.  Sending you strength and hugs.
    mmc @ 14 weeks - November 2009. Missed every day. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 15DPO:461 17DPO (47hrs later):1380
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  • lizlop01lizlop01

    We have to believe that we will be happy again.  I had a d&c on Tuesday myself.  My heart is broken and I don't even know if I will be able to smile again.  I have to believe that I will and you need to believe it to.  We will find the strength to keep going and pray for things to get better.  I was even afraid to log in but I am glad I did!  I had been trying to get pregnant for 6 years and loosing the baby makes me very scare of what the future holds for me but we have to stay positive.

     

    Best Wishes from the bottom of my heart. 

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  • StaribethStaribeth
    With time you will be able to be happy again. I have glimpses of happiness for the pg women in my life (three that are due within 2 weeks of my edd). I know that as time goes by I will be able to be a better friend/cousin to them and I am very open with how I feel as well. Understand that you are still in the midst of hormone madness and you will become more like yourself (a changed self, but yourself nonetheless) as time goes by. I am almost 6 weeks past my D&C and I am in a very different place than I was the first two weeks. Don't get me wrong, I still breakdown, but I am much more stable than I was. Vent all you want- we totally get it!
    Three losses in 2009, a miracle in 2010! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker The Method to My Madness, a PPD blog
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  • MrsNJTigerMrsNJTiger

    oh my gosh, I am so sorry.

    I know how you feel.  My cousin and I both told we were pg at Thanksgiving, due 10 days apart.  Well, now I have been told I am going to have m/c #4!! 

    It is really hard to be happy for other people and see how easy it is for most when we have it pretty darn crappy.  I am so sorry you are going through this!

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