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CIO?

mybabylove2009mybabylove2009
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How do people do it? I can't even listen to DS cry for more than a minute. Last night I was brushing my teeth and DH was taking care of DS and he was crying. He was being fussy and just wasn't happy. I was almost in tears by the time I was done brushing my teeth. 

How do they do it?  

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  • MrsErinnElizabethMrsErinnElizabeth

    imagefredalina:
    ITA, but i'm sure they can stand it because they're convinced that they're doing the right thing.

    This.

    And we get it...you don't like CIO.   Between here and 0-3, I think this is like the fourth rant about CIO from you in the last hour ;)

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  • caeliesmomcaeliesmom member

    I'm just an awful mom who doesn't love her baby. 

     

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  • AZAudiGirlAZAudiGirl member
    imageMrsErinnElizabeth:

    imagefredalina:
    ITA, but i'm sure they can stand it because they're convinced that they're doing the right thing.

    This.

    And we get it...you don't like CIO.   Between here and 0-3, I think this is like the fourth rant about CIO from you in the last hour ;)

    You think that is a rant or are you being sarcastic? 

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  • mybabylove2009mybabylove2009
    imageAZAudiGirl:
    imageMrsErinnElizabeth:

    imagefredalina:
    ITA, but i'm sure they can stand it because they're convinced that they're doing the right thing.

    This.

    And we get it...you don't like CIO.   Between here and 0-3, I think this is like the fourth rant about CIO from you in the last hour ;)

    You think that is a rant or are you being sarcastic? 

    so far this weekend I've had 10 CIO suggestions for my 1 month old 

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  • AZAudiGirlAZAudiGirl member
    I get CIO advice almost daily. LO is a little over 4 mos and everyone I run into thinks we are crazy not to CIO. I am pretty lucky though because he really never cries unless he needs something. Sometimes, it just so happens that his something is me.
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  • MrsErinnElizabethMrsErinnElizabeth
    imageAZAudiGirl:
    imageMrsErinnElizabeth:

    imagefredalina:
    ITA, but i'm sure they can stand it because they're convinced that they're doing the right thing.

    This.

    And we get it...you don't like CIO.   Between here and 0-3, I think this is like the fourth rant about CIO from you in the last hour ;)

    You think that is a rant or are you being sarcastic? 

    LOL, I know what a rant is.  I've definitely been around long enough for that.  I was just pointing out that she was posting about it a LOT.  But I guess if someone were constantly telling me to use CIO on Delilah, I'd probably want to vent about it too ;)

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  • KnittyKnitty
    imageMrsErinnElizabeth:

    LOL, I know what a rant is.  I've definitely been around long enough for that.  I was just pointing out that she was posting about it a LOT.  But I guess if someone were constantly telling me to use CIO on Delilah, I'd probably want to vent about it too ;)

    Some of use live in our own little worlds in between family visits. I don't know how you guys who get this sort of advice all the time handle it.

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  • mybabylove2009mybabylove2009

    I've just been crabby cause people keep telling me, oh he NEEDS to cry, it'll make his lungs strong! Why's he in your bed? you should really be sleep training him! 

    BLAH BLAH BLAH!

    I HATE letting him cry even for a moment

    Luckily he isn't super fussy, and its always fixed with a snuggle and boobie 

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  • mrstarawalshmrstarawalsh member
    Easy I hate my child and want him to shut up. So I just ignore him in hopes he will. Confused
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  • Soon2BMrsNSoon2BMrsN member
    I'm not sure.  :(
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