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vegas517 · November 2009

Hi Ladies,

I'm new to this board, and to the bump. I hate the reason I needed to reach out to all of you, and to join this group, but I'm so glad you are here. My awesome OB actually recommended I look into an online group like this, and I'm glad I did.

I had a missed miscarriage at 8 wks 3 days. My d &c was a week ago. I'm struggling today because while I have so much to be thankful for, I'm angry, sad, and wishing I could turn back time. I was married in August to the most wonderful man, and through all of this I am reminded why I fell in love with him, and how badly I want to have a family with him. But, in true guy fashion, he's struggling with my tears, my erratic moods, and wanting to make it all better, when he knows he can't.

I've been reading through your posts, and they have given me strength and comfort knowing I'm not alone in this. I'm sad for the reason I'm here, but I'm happy to have found you.

I wish you all as much peace and comfort that you can muster today, and if needed, a great glass of wine (or two or five), and a hug.

Paula

jennsadye1979 · November 2009

I am very sorry for your loss.

It will probably be a bit slower around here in the next couple days because of the holidays, but there are a lot of wonderful, supportive women here on this board. It's a great place to ask questions and get answers, and just to vent or shed a few tears.

I hope you stick around, and once you are ready, there are great ladies on TTC After A Loss who will welcome you there too.

((Big Hugs)), and have a few glasses of wine for me today (Canadian, so I am at work)

KtB0605 · November 2009

I am so sorry for your loss..These ladies on this board have been so, so helpful to me after I m/c three weeks ago. They're wonderful, supportive, and full of advice. Again, I am so sorry for your loss. Feel free to come here for any questions, and like pp said just to vent or shed a few tears. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Sonadora · November 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss.

JuJuBe3 · November 2009

I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome you to this board. As you said, there is a lot of great support and comfort here. I, too, had a missed m/c. My DH has been wonderful and yet, struggling to 'fix' (in true man style) how I am feeling. It's great you have a support network to help you during this difficult time. And not matter what, you're not alone in this.

(P.S. I'm on wine glass #3 for today.)

BlindysWife · November 2009

vegas517:

and through all of this I am reminded why I fell in love with him, and how badly I want to have a family with him. But, in true guy fashion, he's struggling with my tears, my erratic moods, and wanting to make it all better, when he knows he can't.

I know exactly what you mean.

Sorry for your loss, and welcome to the board. Its comforting knowing that we're not going through this alone.

Temp950106187509203 · November 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's always sad to welcome someone to this board, but I am very glad you found us. {{hugs}} The ladies on this board are so great; it is really helpful to have a place where everyone understands.

jgoetz:) · November 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss. I also had a D&C last Thursday and today was pretty tough for me too. We were supposed to share the news with our family today so when we said grace I felt so sad. There is a lot of love and support on this board. I'm here if you need to talk!