Do your friends understand what its like??

trs1978 · November 2009

So my bf since childhood is giving me the guilt trips lately. She keeps making comments about how we don't talk anymore even though we text ot talk at least once week since LO came. Many of my friends are preggers w/baby#1 but right now it feels like they just don't understand what I'm going through w/ a newborn. Did I mention I cooked Thanksgiving dinner for 9 as well?!! Anyone elses friends do this?

mybabylove2009 · November 2009

Yeah except almost all my friends are not pregnant, and hate kids. Yeah they are all sowing their oats still!

We have 1 pregnant friend who is 8 months along. I feel like when ever I try to give her advice on delivery, I feel like I am being preachy even though I am totally not. I just remember how MUCH I hated "advice" so I try not to talk to her about it, unless she asks

GBucksHollysMOM · November 2009

Some do some dont. One friend keeps telling people I dont appreciate anything shes done for me. I dont get what the hell she wants me to do though throw a party in her honor???

madameladauphine · November 2009

I have one friend who totally gets it, and tells me that she misses me but not in a guilt trip-y way. But I have others that don't get it AT ALL and it's really annoying! This one friend keeps calling and calling and calling and I'm always in the middle of something. He doesn't get that I'm busy now like, all.the.time.

MrsBatty · November 2009

None of my friends have babies, and I feel like NONE of them get it. My cousin is about 16 weeks and I feel like she is the only one who "sort of" gets it.

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