I am trying to arm myself with information when I meet with my Dr to discuss my options to m/c. So far my body shows no signs of letting go. The waiting is awful. So I am leaning towards a D&C to put closure to this process, and that I have the option I can get the baby tested (assuming I can). I assume this is why most women choose this option. However, what are the cons of it? Has anyone done it and wish they had gone the med route instead? Does the risks for the next PG go up or become high risk because of this?
I was reading another site and they said to ask the Dr if they do "scrapping". Perhaps this has something to do with more scar tissue?
Re: Cons of having a D&C?
I had a D&C on Friday and I honestly don't have any cons for it...It was quick,painless, besides the cramps afterwards and my Dr gave me pain relievers for it, all in all, it was the best decision.
There is a risk of scaring and uterine perforation, or at least that's what my doctor told me. But he said he had never perforated a uterus in his career and rarely had anyone with scaring.
I went for the D&C because my body showed no signs of doing it on its own, I wanted it over with, and there's always a chance you will have to have a D&C anyway with the medicine if any tissue remains. I had no interest in potentially having to have a procedure after miscarrying with medicine. Like I said, I wanted it over with. I needed it to be over with.
I'm very sorry for your loss.
BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10
BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15
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the only cons i can think of are the rare chance of adverse effects of anesthesia, possibility of infection post procedure, or perforation which is extremely rare. if you miscarry and are over 8 weeks along D&E/C is the best option b/c you are further along and the products of conception (including placenta and other tissue) is larger, if you are medically induced/naturally going to miscarry at home, there is a greater risk of hemorrhage and you might not get everything out, and need a D&C down the road anyway.
my tissue was immediately sent for pathology and i was diagnosed with a partial molar and now am being followed very carefully. if i were to naturally or medically miscarry i might never have the proper diagnosis.
so sorry for your loss.
TTC #1 since 7/08 After 3 years, 2 losses, 3 rounds of IUI, and one round of IVF, we finally have our dream come true! DS born 7/30/11
TTC #2 off and on since 7/12
If I had the choice, I would have done a D&C. I had a natural miscarriage, and it was really painful, and there was a lot of blood- much more than I'd ever had with a period. I passed a lot of clots- some the size of golf balls.
From what I've read on here, taking the meds just prolongs your emotional pain while giving you the same symptoms you'd have during a natural miscarriage. I wouldn't want that.
I just wanted to say thanks for posting this. I am waiting for confirmation of a Blighted Ovum (Sp) and told my Dr I want a D&c as soon as it is confirmed. I don't want to wait I want to move on and start trying again. I found all of you ladies responses very helpful and now I feel even better about my decision. Maybe we will be lucky and the 1st u/s was just to early, but I don't want to get my hopes up too far and really felt all of you offered really great advise!
Thanks for posting the? and for all the responses. It is very reassuring.
So far I'm happy that I went with a D&C. Since the baby had died over 4 weeks before I was diagnosed and showed no sign of miscarrying, I was relieved to know that I didn't have to wait around for it to happen. I still can't get over how wonderful all the staff was at the hospital (and I've had several previous surgeries).
My OB/GYN used a suction method, which he said was most common now.
It's a difficult decision but I hope you make the right one for you.
Hugs,
Mary
Augh I just lost everything I just wrote out...
I don't normally come on this board but I happened to see your post.
I have had 2 natural m/c, a successful pregnancy, and a D&C in August. I don't think I would chose the D&C again. Physically it's ok.... but emotionally it was really hard on me. I felt fine but about 3 weeks later the time of mourning hit me. I was a wreak- but everyone had kind of forgotten about me since it had been a while. What was really hard was I had to wait 3 months to TTC again so I was only 3 weeks into that wait. When I had my 2 natural m/c's I stayed home and mourned while I went through it. It took about 2 bad days of cramps for it to turn more into a period. One was at 5 weeks and the other natural was at 7 weeks. This D&C was at 6.5 weeks.
I just wanted to let you know the emotional side of it... that is worse than any physical pain you will go through. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Married 8.13.2005, M/C 12/8/06- 5 weeks, M/C 2/27/07- 7 weeks, M/C w/ D&C 8/10/09-6.5 weeks *Charles Lawrence born 5/2/08 @ 3:14am, 7lb 8oz, 20.5 inches. Clomid, Crinone and baby aspirin. *Alexandra Claire born 9/14/10 @ 9:52am 6lb 14oz, 20.5 inches. Femara, Crinone and baby aspirin.