Cycles have been wacky after I had my IUD removed in September. One 28 day cycle, then a 24 day cycle. Now AF was due Saturdayish and is still not here. I tested Friday and Sunday. BFN.
So if AF never shows and I am not pregnant, I have no idea when I ovulate next. This trying to conceive thing is stressing me out.
I think maybe I need to start chartin or something. Any tips?
Re: Got a ttc kinda question.
Do you have any idea what day (in these cycles) you possibly ovulated? Have you ever used OPKs?
11 months
i never got a PP AF, but when we wanted to TTC this time i used an OPK.
we didn't prevent, didn't use OPK in august...just had lots of sex all the time = BFN
didn't prevent, used OPK in september = BFN
didn't prevent, used OPK in october = BFP
i used OPK to get pregnant with jack too and it worked the first time then. i used the Answer brand ones each time because they have 20 test strips, which is useful when you haven't had a PP AF! i peed on those things like it was my job - lol!
I have an idea and we actually used protection this past month in order to avoid being due near BIL's wedding and that is why I am clueless to why AF didn't show up. I've never used opks. Go figure that we get pregnant the first time only because I missed a few bcps and this time it takes precision and calculation! The irony.
I guess we should just have sex every day this month!
every other day ;o)
gives time for the sperm count to build up again
tmi? ?lol?
11 months
Start charting! Read Take Charge Of Your Fertility and then start charting. I used Fertility Friend when we were trying, and I upgraded so it would show crosshairs and whatnot. But I just used the free version when we werent trying. I charted cervical mucous and temperature. We conceived on our first month trying.