Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

BFP

Yeah, I am a bit flipped out.  We had unprotected sex once damn it.  I realize it is completely our fault but come on.  Who wants to find out because they are traveling for business so ill they think they have swine flu until they realize their period is late.  No to mention finding alone in a hotel room and having to call DH who was thrilled but I am about to have a nervous breakdown.

The time is wrong for work, for the renovations on the house, I wanted DD to be a bit older before having a sibling, and about pretty much everything else.  I know we are blessed not to have any fertility problems and no other pressing issues which makes me feel even more like a jerk but it wasn't in the plan to start trying until at least four months from now and I have no idea how to swing this with everything that is planned in the next year.

Not mention I feel like a moron for all of the sushi, cheeses, raw meat, and wine I have had in the past two weeks.  Plus the lack of folic acid and too many missed meals due to long nights in the office. 

I guess that BFP was more of a vent, flame away. 

Re: BFP

  • Breathe!

    Congratulations! Everything will be fine.

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  • No flames from me. I wouldn't exactly be thrilled if I got KU right now either. You'll feel better about it soon... you're just in the initial shock of it right now. At least your H is excited about it though. Smile

    Congrats! 

  • It will all work out!  congratulations!! : )
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  • No flames from me. It sucks the timing is not at all ideal, but I'm assuming you all will work things out and you'll be ok. Why feel stupid for eating sushi, drinking wine etc. It's not like you knew.
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  • Raw meat?  Yuck.

    Congratulations, you will have 9 months to let it sink in!

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  • You'll be ok! Stop stressing, work will be understanding, the house will get done, and your baby is fine even if you ate sushi and amazing French cheeses. :-)

    Breathe

  • It will work out.  Congrats.
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  • Congrats! It'll all work out.
  • I'll gladly take that BFP from you!  You'll warm up to the idea....What *real* difference does four months make?  Congrats!
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  • You'll make it work. Congratulations!
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  • It will all work out for the best. And you say you could've been TTC just 4 months from now- that's not that far away, so I'm sure you'll be happier in no time. H&H nine months!
  • imagemisjenn:

    You'll be ok! Stop stressing, work will be understanding, the house will get done, and your baby is fine even if you ate sushi and amazing French cheeses. :-)

    Breathe

    Not to mention all of the beautiful stuff I just bought at Saks and Neiman Marcus ;) 

  • I'm not going to flame but just say this- my husband and I spent years trying to get pregnant and, after over $20,000 and loads of heartache, we never were successful. We are blessed beyond belief with the adoption of our son. 

    I don't know that timing is never perfect but I'm sure you'll start to get excited like your hubby soon! Congrats! 

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  • imageEuroChick:
    imagemisjenn:

    You'll be ok! Stop stressing, work will be understanding, the house will get done, and your baby is fine even if you ate sushi and amazing French cheeses. :-)

    Breathe

    Not to mention all of the beautiful stuff I just bought at Saks and Neiman Marcus ;) 

    Isn't that always the case?

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  • stop that, smash_effect.  OP doesn't have to be thrilled just because you were unable to get pregnant.

     

    Anyway, I'm sure everything will work out just fine, EuroChick. :)

  • Thanks ladies.  Like you all said I am sure things will work out.  I am just really overwhelmed right now...
  • Just think....in 4 months when you would have just been starting to try, you will already be through the first trimester and have the worst part over with!  Congrats, hope you feel better about it soon!
  • Congratulations!  I also feel your stress and can relate. 
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  • Congrats!  Relax!!  Your baby will be just fine!
  • Don't worry!  Once it sinks in a little, you'll be ok.  Congrats! 

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