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Back to the world tomorrow

jgoetz:)jgoetz:)
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Tomorrow is my first day back at work after my D&C.  I've been with my DH, mom and best friends since I got this horrible news.  Not looking forward to rejoining the world tomorrow...At least I work with kids so they will keep my busy. 
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    Good luck to you. I go back to work this week, too. Thankfully it's a short one b/c of Thanksgiving.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    Good luck to you going back.  I'm sure it's different for everyone.  I just went back last Thursday and it was hard.  I'm not gonna lie, I teared up a lot in the morning, but it got much better in the afternoon.  You will get through it.  I hope it goes well.
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  • tradster2007tradster2007 member
    Good luck.  I know that when I went back it was difficult, but very few people at work knew so it was an escape for me as well.  One day, one hour, and one moment at a time you will find your new normal.  {{HUGS}}
    BFP#1 8/14/09; Natural M/C 9/16/09 @ 9 weeks 2 days 
    BFP#2 5/11/10; DS1 Born 1-27-11 
    BFP#3 6/24/12; Natural M/C 7/1/12 @ 5 weeks 
    BFP#4 9/22/12; Natural M/C 10/17/12 @ 7 weeks
    BFP#5 3/3/13; DS2 Born 11-7-13
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  • SonadoraSonadora member
    Good luck. It was rough for me and I didn't really focus or get much done for the first few days. I'm still not fully back in the game, but am getting better day by day.
    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • MaryYVRMaryYVR member

    Good luck!  I hope it goes well.  I can't deny that I'm dreading going back.  I told my boss that it would likely be Thursday (1 week post D&C) as I'm still in quite a bit of pain.  Everyone at work knows but i also know that once I go back there's no part way and I lead a large team so need to be on my game.  I'll work on e-mails from home until then.

    Let us know how today goes.  You're in my thoughts.

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  • jgoetz:)jgoetz:)
    Thanks ladies.  Today went pretty well.  I did cry in the morning and was scared to see the people who knew because I didn't know what they would say or what I would say.  Luckily they were very compassionate and made me feel welcomed.  My class kept me very busy which was great because I didn't have time to be sad.  I only had one co-worker say some really dumb things.  First, she asked if something was wrong with me that caused me to miscarry.  Then, she said it was probably for the best because now I could finish the school year.  The last dumb thing she said was that she thinks I just need to move on and celebrate the holidays with my family.  I told her that what I needed was to cry, be with my husband and that nothing she could say would make me feel better, so she should just stop.  That shut her up...  Luckily tomorrow is my last day this week because of the holiday. 
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