Wasn't ready for the news

Re: Wasn't ready for the news

• wils0482 member

  November 2009

  I'm really sorry you're going through this.  It's so heartbreaking.  Take care of yourself.  (((hugs)))

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

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• jennsadye1979

  November 2009

  I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost my first pregnancy, and it is very hard, but I did find much comfort and support through posting here throughout the stages of my loss.

   

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• Blondangel member

  November 2009

  I'm really sorry you are going through this. I too lost our first baby and am waiting until we can try again. Every day is slightly better than the day before and you'll cry less and less. Take care of yourself. It isn't fair and I feel for you.

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• triple_sevens member

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. It's so hard. The only thing that helps me is talking to other women who have experienced this and having time alone to cry on the bad days. One day we'll all be happy again, I'm sure of it.
  

  BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

  Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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• rjbear21 member

  November 2009

  Oh I'm so sorry.  ((hugs))  This board is really good for support. 
  

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• simbajsp member

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry that you have to go through this.  Mine was a first pregnancy loss as well and similar situation as yours. I was not ready to hear the news either, and it was devastating for sure.  I had a D&C the following week and it wasn't so bad physically.The procedure didn't take long and it was a pretty easy recovery physically. Emotionally it's a whole different story, not necessarily because of the D&C but everything about coping with this loss.  Please surround yourself with people who can be there for you to support you.  It's very important to have someone to talk to or just to listen as you cry or scream about how awful this is.  And, the ladies of this message board are a huge source of support too.  I hope you and your DH are able to get through this and come out stronger. 

  
  

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• candylies

  November 2009

  So sorry for your loss. {{{HUGS}}} my only advice is if your DH can stay home with you for a few days I would recommend that. It really helped me from losing my mind.

  The d&c shouldn't be too bad physically but of course the toll it takes emotionally will be hard to deal with. There will be good days and bad days but overall it does slowly get better as the days go on.  Hang in there.
  

  Started TTC - 01/2009 1st BFP - 09/04/09,1st u/s - 10/06/09- no heartbeat seen, D&E - 10/13/09 BFP #2 - 2/12/10, m/c 2/17/10 BFP #3 - 01/03/11 m/c 01/10/11 BFP #4 - 02/21/11 DS born 10/13/2011

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• Temp950106187509203 member

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry for your loss.  My only advice is to let yourself grieve in whatever way helps you.  Come here and vent whenever you need to; the ladies here have been so, so helpful when it seems like no one in the "real" world understands what I'm feeling.
  
  You're in my thoughts and prayers.
  

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• sunsetlove member

  November 2009

  so sorry for your loss.. ((HUGS)))

  BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.

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• MaryYVR member

  November 2009

  I'm so very sorry that you're going through this.  I'm going through this as well and am recovering from the D&C I had Thursday. I go back and forth between tears and just feeling numb.  The D&C was okay and not too painful.  I'm just sore and have cramping but haven't had any bleeding since about 24 hours after the D&C. Not sure if it will come back or not

  I hope you have a lot of family support and cry as much as you need to.  PM me if you need to chat.

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  mmc @ 14 weeks - November 2009. Missed every day. 15DPO:461 17DPO (47hrs later):1380

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• BAM_2780

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry for you loss.  I had a subchorionic hemmorhage too.  It is such a difficult thing to go through but this board is wonderful and was really helpful to me.  Good luck to you.  You are in my t&p.

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• Sonadora member

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry for your loss.
  

  BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.
  
  BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10
  
  BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15
  
  
  
  
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• MaryYVR member

  November 2009

  I don't have any advice as I'm going through the same thing myself.  Just wishing you all the strength you need and hugs.  I wish I could say something that would make it easier but I haven't found those words for myself yet.

  You're definitely in my thoughts.

   Mary
  

  mmc @ 14 weeks - November 2009. Missed every day. 15DPO:461 17DPO (47hrs later):1380

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• jgoetz:)

  November 2009

  Same with me...  Every day gets a little better but I need to do things to remember the baby like go to mass, write in my journal about them, buy an ornament, etc.  Talking to my girlfriends who have had miscarriages and girls on this board has really helped.  It's all so unfair but we'll get through this and will be happy again.
  

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• pepomntpat member

  November 2009

  I am sorry for your loss. I just lost my first pregnancy about 2 weeks ago. {{hugs}}
  

  

  
  
  
  
  

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