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Someone else I forgot to tell

schen0510schen0510
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So I posted on facebook this morning that I was up at 6 a.m. having trouble sleeping.  One of my friends, who has teenage twin boys, posted..."are you sleeping in a recliner yet?  It is the only way I made it through.  How far along are you now."

I guess I forgot to tell her or thought someone else would.  Nope.  So I sent her a private message letter her know what happened.  I hate doing that because people always feel badly after...but how else am I supposed to respond.  3 months later and I am still telling people.

::sigh::

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  • andrea zandrea z
    Aww! I am so sorry. I hate that. Our neighbor saw me right after and had no idea (I still had a belly and the last time she saw me was three weeks before I went on bedrest). It was such an awkward conversation. I am so sorry.none of us should have to deal with this.
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  • monica92603monica92603 member
    yeah those conversations sure do suck.  I had a regional meeting the other day and ran into someone from my old team that is still close w/ my boss.  I thought my boss would have said something to her but he hadn't.  So when she asked me how the baby was and I told her what happened, she looks at me and says something like 'are you freaking serious?'  uh, yeah, I don't think anyone would JOKE about something like that.  Good times
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  • KtB0605KtB0605
    Sending you ALL hugs...I am so sorry for all of your losses. 
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  • StaribethStaribeth

    Ugh- FB. I had posted that I was having a a nice dinner and a glass of wine with MH and a friend commented about the wine. That was a terrible conversation and she hasn't been able to talk to me for the past two weeks.

    I wish there was an easier way to let people know.

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  • ala_1220ala_1220

    Oh girl...I'm so sorry.  I hate those conversations.  I thought the word had gotten around work since I was out for 4 weeks, but the other night a girl asked me when I was due.  It sucks.  I just said, "I'm not."  I try not to make the other people feel bad...they don't know.

    I have also learned my lesson about asking people when they are going to have children.  I was asked this tonight.  I didn't know the person all that well...I just said, "well, having kids is harder than I thought it was going to be."

    Hugs to you!!!

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