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A.S.S. Initials? WDYT?

I love the name Alexander Samuel. But our last name starts with an S. His (if it's a boy) would be A.S.S. If this kid has a personality like mine, he'll think it's hysterical and would love it. 

WDYT?

Other names we like are Henry Alexander, rebecca jean & alexandra jean.  

Re: A.S.S. Initials? WDYT?

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  • I would def not do that to my kid. You never know what personality your kid will have and you do not want other kids teasing him, right?
  • Please, please don't. My brother's initials are PMS and he HAAAAATES it. IMHO, Henry Alexander sounds better, too!
  • I may be alone in this, but I definitely wouldn't give my kid the initials A.S.S. 
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  • don't do it.

    As someone who had crappy initials growing up, we're being very careful about the selection of names.

    mine was SLAM - and being a fat kid, that wasn't good news.

  • How about Samuel Alexander? It still sounds really nice together!
  • what about alexander henry?

    a.s.s.-- i wouldn't. but i wouldn't judge you if you did.

  • hahahahaha it would be funny, but only for like the first 3 times it's joked about.  and then the poor boy will have to write out his name on all documents and then constantly get comments from people... can you switch first and middle and then just call him by his middle?

    also, funny for you but you don't have to have that as your name ;o)

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  • I think it's a bad idea.  It's hysterical to an adult but won't be hysterical to a little kid getting teased on the playground.
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  • AND you could  NEVER put his initials on anything.  Ever.
  • I would do samuel alexander, but dh's family got the first name in meredith. It's my turn. lol 
  • Don't. Do. It.

    The initials are part of the naming for me.  If they don't work its no dice.

    You do not want your kid to be initialing documents for his finances or his first home with those letters.  Names aren't just for kids, they are for life (ideally).

  • I would never do that. I have a similar issue and have had to give up a name I loved because of that. I'd hate to have my son made fun of for something that I could've prevented.

    Side story: growing up a girl I knew was Elizabeth O. but always went by Beth. Apparently her parents wanted to name her Beth, but then her initials would be BO, so they changed it to Elizabeth but always called her Beth. Kids were cruel on the playground when they found that out.

  • No way, don't do it.  There are so many names out there I am sure you can think of something w/o weird initials.

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  • I'd have to say don't do it! Poor kid.
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  • I wouldn't he would be teased all through school.

    I have a friend named Jack he go teased big time for that 

  • OMG, that's why I had to change the girl name I had liked because the initials would also be A.S.S.  Our last name starts with an S and I had liked Amber Sujey...well...not happening anymore!

    Better to have caught it now than when the kid is in school and everyone makes fun of her! LOL

  • Don't do it.  It's not fair to your kid.  I have a cousin with these initials and it caused her constant strife as a child - constantly being bullied and teased.  Even now she's constantly (rudely) asked about ti with chuckles.  It's not funny.  Besides, you could never in good conscience ever have anything monogrammed properly. AND if you kid ever grew up to work in an office like mine and has to put his initials on the bottom of letters he wrote it would be a huge issue.  
  • NO WAY. We have an "S" last name too. I would never! Might be funny to an adult, but probably not a kid being teased.

     

  • Definitely no. He won't even get married to be able to erase the initials. It's school bullying waiting to happen.
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  • I think everyone is waaaaaay overreacting! A kid's initials are generally not the first thing a bully latches onto. Kids will find a way to tease even if you find a somehow tease proof name. My initials used to be ABM. "A Bowel Movement" and now they are ABJ, Yeah. The quality of my life is unaffected, thanks.
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  • lol!  don't do it!!  my maiden initials were AOS and I was always thankful that my parents didn't make my middle name Sue...lol! :)
  • What about Samuel Alexander? 
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  • You just can't give him those initials. You could name him Samuel Alexander and call him by his middle name if you are really stuck on those names.
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  • Boo, that does rather suck.  I don't think I could do that to my kid though, especially a boy who will keep the name his entire life. 
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  • As someone with a cousin with those initials, don't do it.

    He still gets picked on.

    He's 35.

  • I'm kind of on the fence with this one.    On one hand,  if it's not that important of a name to you, and you could be just as happy with a different one, then why not just be safe and change it?

    On the other hand, I think kids will find a way to tease other kids no matter what.  It may be your initials, your hair, who knows what?  But I think the biggest deterrant to bullying is how the child and parent handles it, ie, how much confidence the child has within themselves.    I got teased in school for little stuff,  but I knew how to take it. I would just laugh and poke a joke at myself and say something like "hey, I know the glasses are ugly... but I gotta see, right?"  And the kids moved on.  KWIM?  

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  • I wouldn't do that to my child.  He would be teased beyond belief.  I think Henry is adorable!

  • He would be picked on nonstop and that would not be good. I vote no. That's just cruel.
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  • If you really love the name, but don't want those initials why don't you throw a "Lee" (or other short 'interjectional' name) in there? Alexander Samuel Lee S.

    I know its long, but its a compromise. I have a long name and its never bothered me. If your kid complains about the length he will probably forgive you when you tell him what the alternative was :).

     OR flip flop it. Samuel Alexander. You can still call him by his middle name. I just wouldn't go with ASS. :/


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